WEBVTT 00:00:00.804 --> 00:00:40.804 ..:: Presented by ZarFilm website ::.. ‏.:: www.bolboljan.net ::. 00:00:48.908 --> 00:00:49.776 You ready? 00:00:51.443 --> 00:00:54.346 Oh Barb, give it a fucking rest, please. 00:00:54.379 --> 00:00:56.716 I swear to God if I didn't have these kids, 00:00:56.749 --> 00:00:59.652 I would jump out of this car right now. 00:00:59.686 --> 00:01:01.821 Go ahead, don't let me stop you, woman. 00:01:01.854 --> 00:01:04.691 Stop the fucking car. 00:01:04.724 --> 00:01:06.224 Just once, just once. 00:01:06.258 --> 00:01:08.326 How does it do it, Nathan? 00:01:08.360 --> 00:01:09.762 What do you mean? 00:01:11.463 --> 00:01:13.766 How does the moon stay in the same place 00:01:13.800 --> 00:01:15.567 while we're moving? 00:01:16.803 --> 00:01:18.236 It's so big, sis. 00:01:19.504 --> 00:01:21.641 It's just that big. 00:01:21.674 --> 00:01:22.541 Oh, there it was. 00:01:22.574 --> 00:01:24.744 - I'm in, I lost. - He's doing it again. 00:01:24.777 --> 00:01:27.714 God, you're such a selfish you know what. 00:01:27.747 --> 00:01:29.414 Starts with a C. 00:01:35.320 --> 00:01:37.890 You guys, that's not where that goes. 00:01:37.924 --> 00:01:41.761 And up and over and side to side. 00:01:41.794 --> 00:01:43.663 Can I get some more helping hands, please? 00:01:43.696 --> 00:01:45.898 Abby, this is a very important achievement. 00:01:45.932 --> 00:01:46.999 - Of course. - What are we gonna do? 00:01:47.033 --> 00:01:48.835 You know what else is doable? 00:01:48.868 --> 00:01:50.402 We're gonna feed the chicken. 00:01:50.435 --> 00:01:51.470 - Feed the chicken. - Okay, 00:01:51.503 --> 00:01:52.705 final hugs for dad. 00:01:55.340 --> 00:01:56.876 Hugs, hugs. 00:01:56.909 --> 00:01:58.577 Great. 00:01:58.610 --> 00:02:00.312 All right, outside to play. 00:02:00.345 --> 00:02:01.279 I don't want to. 00:02:01.313 --> 00:02:02.014 Excuse me? 00:02:02.048 --> 00:02:03.281 There's nothing to do. 00:02:03.315 --> 00:02:04.050 Are you kidding me? 00:02:04.083 --> 00:02:05.785 When I was your age, 00:02:05.818 --> 00:02:08.054 I didn't have any of those jungle gym, fancy things. 00:02:08.087 --> 00:02:09.722 I mean- 00:02:09.756 --> 00:02:11.456 - You want us to have the same crappy childhood you had? 00:02:11.490 --> 00:02:13.358 Really?. 00:02:13.391 --> 00:02:14.927 - Don't encourage it. - Abigail, it's fine. 00:02:14.961 --> 00:02:15.862 Relax. 00:02:15.895 --> 00:02:18.430 "Abigail, it's fine, relax." 00:02:18.463 --> 00:02:20.867 All right guys outside, I will call you later. 00:02:21.868 --> 00:02:23.535 You know, 00:02:23.568 --> 00:02:25.370 can you grab that bookcase at the top of the stairs 00:02:25.403 --> 00:02:26.605 that you've been meaning to grab? 00:02:26.639 --> 00:02:28.708 Because Davis really wants it at your house 00:02:28.741 --> 00:02:30.609 and it's heavy and taking up space, 00:02:30.643 --> 00:02:32.712 and also uniforms, softball uniforms. 00:02:32.745 --> 00:02:33.846 If you got a pair, 00:02:33.880 --> 00:02:35.480 then I wouldn't have to be washing them all the time. 00:02:35.514 --> 00:02:36.314 I will do the bookcase next time. 00:02:36.348 --> 00:02:37.582 Oh, can't talk to Mom. 00:02:37.616 --> 00:02:38.785 Ab, I will do the bookcase next time. 00:02:38.818 --> 00:02:39.919 I'm kind of in a rush. 00:02:39.952 --> 00:02:42.320 You just did 25 minutes of handshakes with the boys, 00:02:42.354 --> 00:02:43.689 you can't take, 00:02:43.723 --> 00:02:44.489 Abigail. 00:02:44.523 --> 00:02:45.423 Okay, fine. 00:02:46.525 --> 00:02:48.560 Oh, look at that, it's your mom. 00:02:48.593 --> 00:02:49.962 Nope. 00:02:49.996 --> 00:02:51.764 I take it you still haven't spoken to her 00:02:51.798 --> 00:02:53.800 about not calling me as if we aren't divorced. 00:02:53.833 --> 00:02:54.634 I forgot. 00:02:54.667 --> 00:02:55.600 I'll get to it. 00:02:55.635 --> 00:02:56.501 - Please do. - Mm hm. 00:02:59.471 --> 00:03:00.973 God, relentless. 00:03:01.007 --> 00:03:02.607 Hey, bye, good luck with that. 00:03:02.642 --> 00:03:03.676 Mom. 00:03:03.709 --> 00:03:04.744 I have to tell you about the pillow. 00:03:04.777 --> 00:03:05.978 No, no, Ma. 00:03:06.012 --> 00:03:07.113 I can't talk about pillows right now. 00:03:07.146 --> 00:03:08.480 I just got the boys back and we're getting settled in. 00:03:08.513 --> 00:03:10.016 Okay, okay, okay. 00:03:10.049 --> 00:03:14.954 But we should talk because, interesting, Dad fell again. 00:03:15.487 --> 00:03:15.922 Again? 00:03:15.955 --> 00:03:17.023 Is he okay? 00:03:17.056 --> 00:03:18.490 Yes, he's okay. 00:03:18.523 --> 00:03:21.393 Why do you sound so annoyed, Abigail? 00:03:21.426 --> 00:03:23.129 Oh, also interesting, 00:03:23.162 --> 00:03:26.565 he almost drowned during his pool therapy session, 00:03:26.598 --> 00:03:28.000 so that might've made him out of sorts. 00:03:28.034 --> 00:03:30.468 Mom, what do you mean almost drowned? 00:03:30.502 --> 00:03:31.336 Yeah. 00:03:32.638 --> 00:03:34.140 - Yeah? - What? 00:03:34.173 --> 00:03:36.374 I said almost. 00:03:36.408 --> 00:03:38.711 He's on the floor and can't get up. 00:03:38.744 --> 00:03:39.946 Interesting. 00:03:39.979 --> 00:03:41.580 - What? - Well, he's comfortable. 00:03:41.613 --> 00:03:43.883 Do you think I would leave him there if he wasn't? 00:03:43.916 --> 00:03:45.985 Ma, how long has he been on the floor for? 00:03:46.018 --> 00:03:48.553 A few hours, maybe more. 00:03:48.587 --> 00:03:50.422 What do you think, I'm a monster? 00:03:50.455 --> 00:03:51.423 Ma. 00:03:51.456 --> 00:03:54.827 Boys, get inside the house. 00:03:54.861 --> 00:03:56.095 - Hi, JD. - Hi, JD. 00:03:56.128 --> 00:03:58.898 Hey, boys, I've got ice cream. 00:03:58.931 --> 00:04:01.067 Mom, they don't need ice cream. 00:04:01.100 --> 00:04:03.468 Abigail, I raised two children. 00:04:03.501 --> 00:04:05.872 Do you think I don't know how to feed children? 00:04:06.772 --> 00:04:08.074 It'd just be nice if you asked me 00:04:08.107 --> 00:04:09.942 before you pumped my kids with sugar. 00:04:09.976 --> 00:04:11.911 - Hi, Dad. - Hi. 00:04:11.944 --> 00:04:13.179 What's going on here? 00:04:13.212 --> 00:04:14.780 Well, I was trying to sit down and I missed it. 00:04:14.814 --> 00:04:16.015 I see that. 00:04:16.048 --> 00:04:16.949 Let me help you. 00:04:16.983 --> 00:04:18.617 Hold on, hold on, hold on. 00:04:18.651 --> 00:04:20.552 Careful, Abigail, you'll get another hernia. 00:04:20.585 --> 00:04:21.787 I'm fine, Mom. 00:04:21.821 --> 00:04:22.688 I'm okay. 00:04:23.756 --> 00:04:24.623 Here, you could- 00:04:24.657 --> 00:04:25.925 - Okay. - Okay, okay. 00:04:25.958 --> 00:04:26.959 Okay. 00:04:26.993 --> 00:04:28.027 - Yup. - Yeah. 00:04:29.762 --> 00:04:30.830 How's that? 00:04:30.863 --> 00:04:32.098 Feel balanced? 00:04:32.131 --> 00:04:33.065 Will you sit on the couch with me? 00:04:33.099 --> 00:04:34.033 - Of course. - Thanks. 00:04:38.004 --> 00:04:39.038 Sometimes I, 00:04:41.573 --> 00:04:42.407 I can't, 00:04:43.943 --> 00:04:45.111 I can't get my balance. 00:04:49.048 --> 00:04:50.716 I don't know what's going on. 00:04:51.918 --> 00:04:53.019 That's what we're trying to figure out 00:04:53.052 --> 00:04:54.186 with the doctors, okay? 00:04:55.655 --> 00:04:57.622 Get everything moving the way you want it to. 00:04:57.657 --> 00:04:58.490 Okay. 00:05:00.126 --> 00:05:01.827 How was pool therapy? 00:05:01.861 --> 00:05:02.929 Oh, well I... 00:05:07.033 --> 00:05:09.101 Abby, I couldn't feel my feet. 00:05:10.670 --> 00:05:12.104 Never happened to me before. 00:05:15.908 --> 00:05:19.011 I felt like I was falling backwards 00:05:19.045 --> 00:05:22.048 and then I tried to right myself 00:05:22.081 --> 00:05:27.019 and I just kind of tumbled in the pool. 00:05:27.987 --> 00:05:28.821 Okay. 00:05:30.089 --> 00:05:31.791 Ma really shouldn't be leaving you. 00:05:31.824 --> 00:05:33.159 Oh no, no, no. 00:05:33.192 --> 00:05:36.528 Don't, don't, don't be hard on her. 00:05:36.561 --> 00:05:38.764 She's doing a terrific job, Abby. 00:05:38.798 --> 00:05:42.635 Abby, she is the best wife anyone could have. 00:05:43.535 --> 00:05:44.170 Okay. 00:05:49.041 --> 00:05:51.077 Have you told your brother about me? 00:05:52.044 --> 00:05:54.046 Euge, he doesn't give a shit. 00:05:54.080 --> 00:05:55.114 Ma. 00:05:57.149 --> 00:05:58.583 - You can tell me. - I know. 00:05:58.616 --> 00:06:00.920 I just, I haven't really said much to him 00:06:00.953 --> 00:06:02.722 in the last couple of years. 00:06:02.755 --> 00:06:04.824 He's a son of a bitch. 00:06:04.857 --> 00:06:06.225 Ma. 00:06:06.258 --> 00:06:07.860 I'll be right back, hold on. 00:06:09.228 --> 00:06:11.630 You are not helping. 00:06:11.664 --> 00:06:14.266 Well, when you've had your son cut you out of their life 00:06:14.300 --> 00:06:18.070 for 20 years, then you can tell me how to do this. 00:06:18.104 --> 00:06:19.105 - Hey, Hey. - Yeah, 00:06:19.138 --> 00:06:20.172 - what, honey? - No, no, 00:06:20.206 --> 00:06:21.207 I want Abby. 00:06:22.341 --> 00:06:23.642 Ah. 00:06:23.676 --> 00:06:24.977 Okay then. 00:06:25.011 --> 00:06:26.712 Knock yourself out. 00:06:28.580 --> 00:06:30.082 - This isn't me. - I know. 00:06:34.153 --> 00:06:35.587 I love you. 00:06:35.620 --> 00:06:36.621 Thank you. 00:06:39.058 --> 00:06:40.292 - Ow. - I'm sorry. 00:06:41.761 --> 00:06:43.996 Eugene, I'm home. 00:06:46.265 --> 00:06:48.768 Yoohoo, where are you? 00:06:48.801 --> 00:06:50.002 Be right there, Barb. 00:07:06.085 --> 00:07:07.153 - Who do I love? - Us. 00:07:07.186 --> 00:07:08.220 Who tastes like sugar? 00:07:08.254 --> 00:07:09.155 We are. 00:07:09.188 --> 00:07:10.089 All right. 00:07:24.303 --> 00:07:25.104 Perfect. 00:07:25.137 --> 00:07:25.971 Good night. 00:07:26.005 --> 00:07:27.139 I love you. 00:07:27.173 --> 00:07:28.606 - Love you. - Good night. 00:07:28.641 --> 00:07:30.009 Good night, Mama. 00:07:30.042 --> 00:07:31.977 Good night, Grape. 00:07:32.011 --> 00:07:32.878 Say good night to Matthew. 00:07:32.912 --> 00:07:34.313 Good night Matthew. 00:07:34.346 --> 00:07:35.181 All right. 00:07:36.215 --> 00:07:39.285 - Night. - Night, mama. 00:07:39.318 --> 00:07:41.120 See you in the morning. 00:07:45.391 --> 00:07:46.759 Sweet dreams. 00:08:03.175 --> 00:08:04.310 Boys, breakfast. 00:08:08.013 --> 00:08:08.814 - Ew. - Here you go. 00:08:08.848 --> 00:08:10.216 What's that smell? 00:08:10.249 --> 00:08:11.884 Is something burning, Mom? 00:08:11.917 --> 00:08:13.152 Oh, shit. 00:08:13.185 --> 00:08:14.220 It's the sausage. 00:08:14.253 --> 00:08:15.254 Fuck, fuck, fuck. 00:08:15.287 --> 00:08:16.322 God dammit. 00:08:18.357 --> 00:08:19.959 Language, Mama. 00:08:19.992 --> 00:08:22.928 I mean, you don't need that. 00:08:22.962 --> 00:08:24.263 You don't need that. 00:08:24.296 --> 00:08:25.231 You have beautiful pancakes and strawberries 00:08:25.264 --> 00:08:27.900 with lots of anti-oxidants, great for you. 00:08:27.933 --> 00:08:28.834 - Eat. - Mama, 00:08:28.868 --> 00:08:30.369 what's that beep, beep, beeping? 00:08:30.402 --> 00:08:31.804 Shit, shit, shit, shit. 00:08:31.837 --> 00:08:32.972 Banana bread. 00:08:33.005 --> 00:08:34.173 - Banana bread. - Remember last week 00:08:34.206 --> 00:08:35.241 when you burnt it? 00:08:35.274 --> 00:08:37.276 Burned it, not burnt it. 00:08:38.210 --> 00:08:39.445 Daddy never burns breakfast. 00:08:39.478 --> 00:08:41.347 Well, can Dada make banana bread 00:08:41.380 --> 00:08:43.349 that's beautiful like this? 00:08:43.382 --> 00:08:44.216 Yes. 00:08:48.821 --> 00:08:49.855 - Hi. - Morning. 00:08:49.889 --> 00:08:50.723 Come on in. 00:08:53.292 --> 00:08:54.093 Banana bread? 00:08:54.126 --> 00:08:55.261 Fresh out of the oven. 00:08:55.294 --> 00:08:56.829 - Oh no, I'm good. - Hey, that's for us. 00:08:56.862 --> 00:08:57.696 Shut it. 00:08:58.364 --> 00:08:59.999 No, I'm good, thank you. 00:09:01.133 --> 00:09:02.001 I need the garage clicker. 00:09:02.034 --> 00:09:04.036 Oh yeah, of course. 00:09:04.069 --> 00:09:05.404 Of course, where is it? 00:09:06.805 --> 00:09:08.040 One of those things that, you know, 00:09:08.073 --> 00:09:09.375 you should really put in a safe place every time, 00:09:09.408 --> 00:09:11.911 'cause that is where you find it. 00:09:11.944 --> 00:09:12.778 But um, 00:09:13.445 --> 00:09:14.813 - ow. - Careful. 00:09:14.847 --> 00:09:15.414 That's sharp. 00:09:15.447 --> 00:09:16.815 I'm fine, really. 00:09:18.117 --> 00:09:18.918 Right here. 00:09:18.951 --> 00:09:19.885 Here you go. 00:09:19.919 --> 00:09:21.253 Thanks. 00:09:21.287 --> 00:09:22.388 - Great. - I'll be working 00:09:22.421 --> 00:09:23.989 on the fountain if you need me. 00:09:25.257 --> 00:09:26.825 Of course. 00:09:32.364 --> 00:09:33.933 What? 00:09:33.966 --> 00:09:35.334 Hey, Daddy's here. 00:09:35.367 --> 00:09:36.202 Oh. 00:09:37.403 --> 00:09:39.104 You're early. 00:09:39.138 --> 00:09:40.439 Dada. 00:09:40.472 --> 00:09:42.308 - Traffic was light. - Mmm. 00:09:42.341 --> 00:09:43.809 Did you boys do your homework? 00:09:43.842 --> 00:09:45.010 - Course it was. - Did you practice 00:09:45.044 --> 00:09:45.477 - your violin, Dave? - No, and no. 00:09:45.511 --> 00:09:46.946 And I tried. 00:09:46.979 --> 00:09:48.280 I really tried, so that's on you now. 00:09:48.314 --> 00:09:49.181 It's all good, buddy. 00:09:49.215 --> 00:09:51.283 Grab your hoodies, boys, it's zoo day. 00:09:52.484 --> 00:09:54.453 They really ate none of their breakfast. 00:09:54.486 --> 00:09:55.888 What's up with your mom? 00:09:55.921 --> 00:09:57.356 She's been texting me a ton. 00:09:57.389 --> 00:09:58.958 It's been kind of weird. 00:09:58.991 --> 00:10:00.392 Didn't they make her start some meds? 00:10:00.426 --> 00:10:02.094 Yeah, well she feels that she doesn't need them. 00:10:02.127 --> 00:10:03.529 It's everybody else that's crazy. 00:10:03.562 --> 00:10:05.331 Well, you told her to stop calling me. 00:10:05.364 --> 00:10:07.333 - Thank you. - Uh huh. 00:10:07.366 --> 00:10:09.301 But now she needs to stop texting me. 00:10:09.335 --> 00:10:10.936 We've been divorced for a year. 00:10:10.970 --> 00:10:12.271 All right, yeah. 00:10:12.304 --> 00:10:13.138 I get it. 00:10:14.106 --> 00:10:16.041 Hey, boychiks, kisses for Mama. 00:10:16.075 --> 00:10:17.142 I'm gonna miss you. 00:10:17.176 --> 00:10:18.944 - Bye, Mama. - Bye. 00:10:18.978 --> 00:10:20.546 Have so much fun at the zoo. 00:10:20.579 --> 00:10:22.014 - See ya. - Snacks for them? 00:10:22.047 --> 00:10:23.182 Yes. 00:10:23.215 --> 00:10:24.116 Okay. 00:10:24.149 --> 00:10:25.351 - Bye, mama. - Of course you have snacks. 00:10:26.318 --> 00:10:27.386 Jesus Christ. 00:10:30.522 --> 00:10:31.924 Ma, what? 00:10:31.957 --> 00:10:33.225 Call the caregiver agency. 00:10:33.259 --> 00:10:35.194 I gotta fire another one. 00:10:35.227 --> 00:10:37.363 No, no, no, no, no, Mom, not Shawn. 00:10:37.396 --> 00:10:38.430 What's going on? 00:10:38.464 --> 00:10:41.166 Oh, wait till you hear this one. 00:10:47.573 --> 00:10:52.511 Shawn, you were brought into this house to protect him, 00:10:52.544 --> 00:10:54.847 not to bring him poison. 00:10:54.880 --> 00:10:56.348 Mrs. Frey, it's not poison. 00:10:56.382 --> 00:10:57.349 - Medicinal marijuana. - Oh please. 00:10:57.383 --> 00:10:58.450 Has been proven to help- 00:10:58.484 --> 00:11:01.353 - Who do you think you're talking to? 00:11:01.387 --> 00:11:04.123 I went through the '60s. 00:11:05.024 --> 00:11:06.458 Barely. 00:11:06.492 --> 00:11:09.495 I was taking mescaline before you were even in diapers. 00:11:09.528 --> 00:11:11.230 So give me a break. 00:11:11.263 --> 00:11:12.264 He asked me for it. 00:11:12.298 --> 00:11:16.335 It is a drug and I don't want it in my house. 00:11:16.368 --> 00:11:20.005 Mrs. Frey, I care about your family. 00:11:20.039 --> 00:11:20.939 Very deeply. 00:11:22.007 --> 00:11:25.978 Spare me the pain. 00:11:26.011 --> 00:11:27.579 Just get out, Shawn. 00:11:27.613 --> 00:11:31.150 In fact, get out and take your bears with you. 00:11:31.183 --> 00:11:32.351 Whoa, whoa, Mom, stop. 00:11:32.384 --> 00:11:34.853 - I want you out. - Shawn, what's happening? 00:11:34.887 --> 00:11:36.889 Mom, stop with the bears. 00:11:36.922 --> 00:11:37.856 I can't do this. 00:11:37.890 --> 00:11:39.158 - We can talk. - I'm sorry. 00:11:39.191 --> 00:11:40.292 Remember the last time? 00:11:40.326 --> 00:11:41.994 Hey, stop it. 00:11:42.027 --> 00:11:43.028 I'll call you. 00:11:45.597 --> 00:11:47.499 This turnover is killing me. 00:11:47.533 --> 00:11:48.434 What did he do? 00:11:49.568 --> 00:11:51.003 Well, 00:11:51.036 --> 00:11:53.238 he was giving your father marijuana 00:11:53.272 --> 00:11:54.940 in the form of cute little bears. 00:11:54.973 --> 00:11:55.941 Oh my God, mom. 00:11:55.974 --> 00:11:57.976 He was one of the good ones. 00:11:58.010 --> 00:12:00.346 Call the service, get another one. 00:12:02.514 --> 00:12:05.517 I'm very happy we have this appointment today 00:12:05.551 --> 00:12:10.422 because he's getting worse. 00:12:10.456 --> 00:12:12.257 Ma, this is how this works. 00:12:12.291 --> 00:12:13.425 It gets worse. 00:12:13.459 --> 00:12:16.895 And this morning he fell again, 00:12:18.964 --> 00:12:20.933 and I could barely pick him up. 00:12:23.102 --> 00:12:27.206 He was like a dead weight. 00:12:28.708 --> 00:12:29.541 Shawn? 00:12:31.644 --> 00:12:33.512 I need Shawn. 00:12:33.545 --> 00:12:35.280 Hey, honey. 00:12:36.448 --> 00:12:37.449 Hi, Dad. 00:12:39.719 --> 00:12:40.619 Hi. 00:12:40.653 --> 00:12:41.620 Hi. 00:12:45.524 --> 00:12:46.525 I need to pee. 00:12:49.361 --> 00:12:50.162 - Okay. - Okay. 00:12:51.163 --> 00:12:52.464 Abby. 00:12:52.498 --> 00:12:54.199 Your dad needs your help. 00:12:54.233 --> 00:12:55.401 But I'm in a hurry. 00:12:56.468 --> 00:12:57.970 I'll be in the car. 00:12:59.672 --> 00:13:01.641 Whoopsy daisy, too late. 00:13:03.208 --> 00:13:06.412 Huh. 00:13:06.445 --> 00:13:07.346 Cut it out. 00:13:07.379 --> 00:13:08.580 Dad said not to make noise. 00:13:08.614 --> 00:13:09.649 Shut up. 00:13:13.152 --> 00:13:14.520 I'm serious, Nathan. 00:13:14.553 --> 00:13:16.054 Cut it out. 00:13:16.088 --> 00:13:17.289 Cut it out. 00:13:17.322 --> 00:13:18.490 - He's gonna be mad. - "He's gonna be mad." 00:13:20.492 --> 00:13:22.094 Hey! 00:13:22.127 --> 00:13:23.462 Abby, what did I tell ya? 00:13:31.303 --> 00:13:34.641 So, I can't seem to get my balance. 00:13:34.674 --> 00:13:36.108 Everything seems to be- 00:13:36.141 --> 00:13:37.976 - Follow my finger, please. - Everything 00:13:39.178 --> 00:13:40.312 is failing on me. 00:13:42.548 --> 00:13:44.416 I feel a little weak. 00:13:44.450 --> 00:13:45.417 Just with the eyes. 00:13:45.451 --> 00:13:47.286 - Huh? - How's work? 00:13:47.319 --> 00:13:48.520 It's fine. 00:13:48.554 --> 00:13:51.590 When are they going to tell you about that cover story? 00:13:53.258 --> 00:13:55.294 I just don't think they think I'm quite ready yet. 00:13:55.327 --> 00:13:56.995 Well, that's ridiculous. 00:13:57.029 --> 00:14:00.432 I mean, you didn't get an MFA to be writing staff pieces 00:14:00.466 --> 00:14:01.300 this long. 00:14:01.333 --> 00:14:04.002 Veronica's daughter-in-law has an MSA 00:14:04.036 --> 00:14:07.272 and she says you absolutely should have a cover now. 00:14:07.306 --> 00:14:09.408 Great, well I am not Veronica's daughter-in-law. 00:14:09.441 --> 00:14:12.578 You have to say what you want, Abigail. 00:14:12.611 --> 00:14:15.247 It's not quite like that, Ma. 00:14:15.280 --> 00:14:18.484 This point, there's really nothing else to do, I'm afraid. 00:14:23.355 --> 00:14:25.257 Nothing else to do? 00:14:25.290 --> 00:14:27.660 Abigail, help me out here. 00:14:27.694 --> 00:14:29.595 I don't think Dr. Ashkenazi understands. 00:14:29.629 --> 00:14:31.163 It's Ashkenazi, Mom. 00:14:31.196 --> 00:14:32.699 It's fine. 00:14:32.732 --> 00:14:34.767 We need another set of tests. 00:14:34.801 --> 00:14:37.336 We need, we need a specialist. 00:14:37.369 --> 00:14:38.570 - He is a specialist. - I am a specialist. 00:14:38.604 --> 00:14:39.739 Dr. Ashkenazi. 00:14:39.772 --> 00:14:41.206 Your next patient's ready. 00:14:41.240 --> 00:14:42.675 Excuse me? 00:14:42.709 --> 00:14:44.644 - Ma. - She serious? 00:14:44.677 --> 00:14:46.245 I'll be right there. 00:14:46.278 --> 00:14:47.379 Doctor, I've been trying to tell my parents 00:14:47.412 --> 00:14:49.816 that it's not safe for them to be living on their own 00:14:49.849 --> 00:14:51.083 without full-time care. 00:14:51.116 --> 00:14:52.251 We don't need it. 00:14:52.284 --> 00:14:53.686 You call me every time he falls. 00:14:53.720 --> 00:14:54.721 Not true. 00:14:54.754 --> 00:14:57.623 I called 911 twice this week. 00:14:57.657 --> 00:14:58.725 Mrs. Frey, 00:14:58.758 --> 00:15:00.727 you need to consider hiring a full-time caregiver. 00:15:00.760 --> 00:15:02.528 You're going to end up hurting yourself. 00:15:02.561 --> 00:15:04.296 We need a fourth opinion. 00:15:04.329 --> 00:15:07.099 The thing about life is that there are no second chances 00:15:07.132 --> 00:15:09.401 to be the you that you're meant to be. 00:15:09.434 --> 00:15:11.603 What's holding you back? 00:15:11.638 --> 00:15:14.641 Now is the time for you to break through those limits. 00:15:16.475 --> 00:15:17.109 Whoa. 00:15:18.410 --> 00:15:20.579 Shit. 00:15:20.612 --> 00:15:21.613 You're good. 00:15:22.614 --> 00:15:23.850 You're good. 00:15:23.883 --> 00:15:25.685 You have to be willing to take a risk 00:15:25.718 --> 00:15:27.386 and take that step. 00:15:27.419 --> 00:15:30.389 'Cause no one else is going to do it for you. 00:15:30.422 --> 00:15:32.157 You have to work. 00:15:32.190 --> 00:15:33.559 Now is the time. 00:15:34.526 --> 00:15:37.797 It's all about you taking that next step. 00:15:38.798 --> 00:15:43.135 Visualize yourself and who you wanna become. 00:15:43.168 --> 00:15:45.270 You have to take control. 00:15:50.710 --> 00:15:52.477 You've reached the voicemail of Hannah White, 00:15:52.511 --> 00:15:54.446 Editor-in-Chief of Modern Jew. 00:15:54.479 --> 00:15:56.148 Leave a message, I'll return your call. 00:15:56.181 --> 00:15:58.216 Hey, boss lady. 00:15:58.250 --> 00:15:59.819 Hannah Banana. 00:15:59.852 --> 00:16:03.555 I'm sorry, but you know, just little busy. 00:16:03.589 --> 00:16:06.391 This is Abigail Frey, by the way. 00:16:06.425 --> 00:16:09.328 So listen, so many things to say, 00:16:09.361 --> 00:16:10.529 my dad's dying. 00:16:10.562 --> 00:16:12.497 I mean, everybody is dying, 00:16:12.531 --> 00:16:16.703 but some quicker than others. 00:16:16.736 --> 00:16:19.772 And my mom is not, 00:16:20.673 --> 00:16:21.908 I mean, 00:16:24.176 --> 00:16:27.446 can I petition for a new mom? 00:16:27.479 --> 00:16:30.515 There's some fun stuff to talk about. 00:16:30.549 --> 00:16:33.452 There's this guy, a man, 00:16:33.485 --> 00:16:38.891 gardening my garden and he is delightful. 00:16:40.292 --> 00:16:42.361 So we can talk about that. 00:16:42.394 --> 00:16:43.730 About haircuts. 00:16:43.763 --> 00:16:45.230 I need one. 00:16:45.263 --> 00:16:46.264 Bangs, 00:16:47.199 --> 00:16:48.266 no bangs? 00:16:48.300 --> 00:16:49.134 I mean... 00:16:54.439 --> 00:16:57.677 So, give me a call 00:16:57.710 --> 00:16:58.778 whenever. 00:16:58.811 --> 00:16:59.779 I'm here. 00:17:04.483 --> 00:17:07.252 Dance clubs just giving it their all today. 00:17:07.285 --> 00:17:09.722 Whoa, look at those kicks. 00:17:09.756 --> 00:17:11.758 These girls worked so hard all year 00:17:11.791 --> 00:17:14.393 just to get a chance to walk. 00:17:20.432 --> 00:17:21.266 Ma. 00:17:22.300 --> 00:17:22.935 Ma. 00:17:24.771 --> 00:17:25.604 Ma? 00:17:28.540 --> 00:17:29.809 What? 00:17:29.842 --> 00:17:32.344 - What, I'm fine. - We're almost ready. 00:17:32.377 --> 00:17:34.479 I needed to take a little nap. 00:17:35.347 --> 00:17:36.716 Where's your father? 00:17:37.616 --> 00:17:38.851 He's not up yet. 00:17:38.885 --> 00:17:40.953 Eugene, what are you doing? 00:17:43.321 --> 00:17:46.726 Your brother said he would call with Karen. 00:17:46.759 --> 00:17:49.862 I told him, you know, come have a meal with us, 00:17:49.896 --> 00:17:54.767 but she's sure has her claws in him, doesn't she? 00:17:54.801 --> 00:17:55.968 Mom, can we just go one day 00:17:56.002 --> 00:17:58.437 without you tearing into Karen? 00:17:58.470 --> 00:18:00.405 Excuse me. 00:18:00.439 --> 00:18:02.240 Look, who's a saint. 00:18:12.819 --> 00:18:14.553 What do you think? 00:18:14.586 --> 00:18:15.922 Why are you wearing those shoes? 00:18:15.955 --> 00:18:16.956 I'm in a good mood. 00:18:16.989 --> 00:18:18.457 Can't I be in a good mood? 00:18:18.490 --> 00:18:19.792 It's a new year. 00:18:19.826 --> 00:18:21.661 - Oh man. - What? 00:18:21.694 --> 00:18:24.030 All right, here's why I'm in a good mood. 00:18:24.063 --> 00:18:26.598 It's New Year's, it's vacation, 00:18:26.632 --> 00:18:29.769 I don't have to work tomorrow, and I just got stoned. 00:18:29.802 --> 00:18:31.269 Happy New Year, Barbara. 00:18:32.939 --> 00:18:34.006 What? 00:18:34.040 --> 00:18:35.440 - What? - No. 00:18:35.474 --> 00:18:36.709 What? 00:18:36.743 --> 00:18:38.310 I've been denying this for 20 years. 00:18:38.343 --> 00:18:39.611 I am so sick and tired. 00:18:39.645 --> 00:18:41.681 I ain't going to deny it anymore. 00:18:41.714 --> 00:18:42.982 I smoke weed. 00:18:43.015 --> 00:18:43.950 Come on, let's eat. 00:18:43.983 --> 00:18:44.984 Abby, sit down. 00:18:45.017 --> 00:18:46.719 Abigail, do not touch that chair. 00:18:46.753 --> 00:18:48.988 Abby, sit down, let's eat. 00:18:49.021 --> 00:18:50.288 - Right. - Ooh. 00:18:50.322 --> 00:18:51.456 Ooh. 00:18:51.490 --> 00:18:53.793 Ooh, look what you've made for me. 00:18:53.826 --> 00:18:54.961 It's my favorite. 00:18:54.994 --> 00:18:56.662 It's pasta primavera. 00:18:56.696 --> 00:18:57.596 Oh, oh. 00:18:57.630 --> 00:18:58.631 - Thank you. - I know that. 00:18:58.664 --> 00:18:59.598 What? 00:19:01.433 --> 00:19:02.902 - Aw, shit. - Now you can 00:19:02.935 --> 00:19:05.638 make your own dinner for the rest of your fucking life. 00:19:05.671 --> 00:19:07.305 Oh, Barbie, give it a fucking break. 00:19:07.339 --> 00:19:10.877 You drink, you drink, you drink, I smoke a joint. 00:19:10.910 --> 00:19:11.944 What? 00:19:17.683 --> 00:19:20.953 Peter, this stupid fucking bookcase. 00:19:38.704 --> 00:19:40.438 - Hi, Dad. - Hi. 00:19:41.140 --> 00:19:43.608 - How are you? - Okay. 00:19:44.543 --> 00:19:45.978 What are you doing out here? 00:19:46.012 --> 00:19:46.813 Where's Darrin? 00:19:46.846 --> 00:19:47.947 Darrin? 00:19:47.980 --> 00:19:51.017 Meeting, I think, us at the doctor. 00:19:51.050 --> 00:19:51.984 Okay. 00:19:52.018 --> 00:19:55.054 Your mother said that I should stay here 00:19:55.087 --> 00:19:56.923 'cause I was too much in the way. 00:19:56.956 --> 00:19:58.691 I hate being such a burden. 00:19:58.724 --> 00:20:00.358 Abigail, you're here already. 00:20:00.392 --> 00:20:02.394 - Here I am. - Do you know 00:20:02.427 --> 00:20:05.998 I have just made the most incredible flatbread? 00:20:06.032 --> 00:20:09.902 I used those dry chickpeas from the Armenian market. 00:20:09.936 --> 00:20:12.939 The one the seamstress at the dry cleaner told us about, 00:20:12.972 --> 00:20:16.508 the dry cleaner who's having an affair with her hairdresser, 00:20:16.541 --> 00:20:18.678 but who still reads your column. 00:20:18.711 --> 00:20:19.979 That is so kind. 00:20:20.012 --> 00:20:23.883 All right, let's get Dad to this appointment. 00:20:23.916 --> 00:20:25.117 We're gonna do it in the walker. 00:20:25.151 --> 00:20:26.484 Why? 00:20:26.518 --> 00:20:27.920 Well, he's got to try it. 00:20:27.954 --> 00:20:29.889 - I can try it. - Yeah. 00:20:29.922 --> 00:20:31.523 Let me take this. 00:20:31.556 --> 00:20:32.892 Dad, I think you should use the wheelchair. 00:20:32.925 --> 00:20:34.994 - He can try the walker. - I could try it. 00:20:35.027 --> 00:20:37.730 Ma, he's very weak. 00:20:37.763 --> 00:20:39.165 Honey, it's okay. 00:20:39.198 --> 00:20:40.666 I'm okay. 00:20:40.700 --> 00:20:41.868 I know what I'm doing. 00:20:42.902 --> 00:20:44.070 Okay, let's try the walker. 00:20:44.103 --> 00:20:45.905 - Okay. - All right. 00:20:47.974 --> 00:20:48.774 Not too fast. 00:20:48.808 --> 00:20:50.076 Yeah, that's it. 00:20:51.077 --> 00:20:52.577 Uh oh. 00:20:52.611 --> 00:20:53.946 - Uh oh. - How you feel? 00:20:53.980 --> 00:20:54.914 Not too good. 00:20:54.947 --> 00:20:55.815 Come on, we'll go back down. 00:20:55.848 --> 00:20:57.415 Okay. 00:20:57.449 --> 00:20:59.151 - There. - Okay, Abigail. 00:21:03.789 --> 00:21:05.858 Whoa, hey. 00:21:05.892 --> 00:21:07.660 I will take care of this. 00:21:09.128 --> 00:21:11.097 This stupid thing. 00:21:11.130 --> 00:21:12.131 All right. 00:21:17.103 --> 00:21:18.671 Want me to do this? 00:21:18.704 --> 00:21:19.639 No, I can do it. 00:21:20.840 --> 00:21:23.109 Yeah, but I don't have my feet ready. 00:21:23.142 --> 00:21:24.442 Oh. 00:21:24.476 --> 00:21:26.544 Oh, shoot. 00:21:26.578 --> 00:21:27.445 Sorry. 00:21:27.479 --> 00:21:28.114 Sorry. 00:21:29.782 --> 00:21:30.615 Oh God. 00:21:34.987 --> 00:21:36.488 I don't like you to bend. 00:21:36.521 --> 00:21:37.589 I know, I'm sorry. 00:21:38.758 --> 00:21:40.126 Okay, great. 00:21:40.159 --> 00:21:41.426 Don't let her bend. 00:21:42.728 --> 00:21:43.528 Okay, Dad. 00:21:44.630 --> 00:21:45.497 You sure you don't want- 00:21:45.530 --> 00:21:46.666 - No, I'm good. - Okay. 00:21:48.200 --> 00:21:52.570 You know, Darrin's girlfriend is 20 and she's pregnant. 00:21:52.604 --> 00:21:56.008 How are we going to stop this endless cycle? 00:21:56.042 --> 00:21:58.443 - Watch out. - Whoopsy daisy. 00:22:00.545 --> 00:22:01.714 I'm fine, Abigail. 00:22:01.747 --> 00:22:02.982 I'm fine. 00:22:03.015 --> 00:22:04.016 Everybody's fine. 00:22:22.969 --> 00:22:26.072 Did you get a chance to look at that dating app? 00:22:26.105 --> 00:22:27.073 'Cause it's time. 00:22:27.106 --> 00:22:29.008 Peter's already seeing people. 00:22:29.041 --> 00:22:30.743 How on earth do you know that, Ma? 00:22:30.776 --> 00:22:32.645 Well, you told me I couldn't call him 00:22:32.678 --> 00:22:33.846 and I couldn't text him, 00:22:33.879 --> 00:22:36.882 but you didn't say I couldn't follow him on Facebook. 00:22:36.916 --> 00:22:38.284 Can we just pay attention 00:22:38.317 --> 00:22:39.885 to what the doctor is saying? 00:22:39.919 --> 00:22:41.553 Sorry. 00:22:41.586 --> 00:22:42.755 Okay. Mr. Frey, 00:22:42.788 --> 00:22:44.156 let's see how you can walk on your own. 00:22:44.190 --> 00:22:45.825 Walking is hard for me. 00:22:45.858 --> 00:22:48.094 Dad, it's okay, we're all here for you. 00:22:48.127 --> 00:22:49.862 Let me get you started Mr. F. 00:22:51.063 --> 00:22:52.665 - Whoa. - Whoa. 00:22:52.698 --> 00:22:55.634 He's like the Leaning Tower of Pisa. 00:22:55.668 --> 00:22:56.969 Ma. 00:22:57.003 --> 00:22:59.038 Okay, Mr. Frey, let's try that again. 00:22:59.071 --> 00:23:00.538 You're all right. 00:23:00.572 --> 00:23:01.573 I got you, Mr. F. 00:23:01.606 --> 00:23:02.241 Now. 00:23:11.817 --> 00:23:13.185 How are you, Mrs. Frey? 00:23:13.219 --> 00:23:15.855 How should I be, Dr. Pastel? 00:23:15.888 --> 00:23:17.289 It's Dr. Patel, Mom. 00:23:17.323 --> 00:23:18.324 It's fine. 00:23:18.357 --> 00:23:21.160 Abigail. I would like you to tell Dr. Patel 00:23:21.193 --> 00:23:22.294 about your father. 00:23:22.328 --> 00:23:25.031 She has training in medicine. 00:23:25.064 --> 00:23:26.866 I took a couple of courses in college, 00:23:26.899 --> 00:23:29.001 just basic stuff. 00:23:29.035 --> 00:23:30.236 Now she's writing. 00:23:30.269 --> 00:23:32.238 She's writing a column for the Modern Jew. 00:23:32.271 --> 00:23:33.806 It's very popular, 00:23:33.839 --> 00:23:36.275 but because she doesn't ask for what she wants, 00:23:36.308 --> 00:23:38.911 she hasn't been given a cover story yet. 00:23:38.944 --> 00:23:40.212 - Ma. - Right. 00:23:42.214 --> 00:23:44.050 He's not been eating. 00:23:44.083 --> 00:23:46.852 He wets the bed most nights. 00:23:46.886 --> 00:23:48.220 He's really not very lucid. 00:23:48.254 --> 00:23:52.291 And he is getting worse day by day. 00:23:54.326 --> 00:23:58.164 His chiropractor thinks maybe meditation would help. 00:23:59.231 --> 00:24:00.232 Mm-hmm. 00:24:01.200 --> 00:24:02.935 Mrs. Frey, 00:24:02.968 --> 00:24:04.804 I'm going to be blunt. 00:24:04.837 --> 00:24:06.806 I know you're continuing to make appointments weekly, 00:24:06.839 --> 00:24:09.175 but your husband is not going to get better. 00:24:11.143 --> 00:24:15.714 So, do you mean we brought him to a doctor, 00:24:15.748 --> 00:24:18.084 to a hospital, where they can't fix him? 00:24:18.117 --> 00:24:19.285 Mom. 00:24:19.318 --> 00:24:21.320 He's gonna continue to decline at a more rapid rate now. 00:24:21.353 --> 00:24:23.756 And we need to talk about hospice. 00:24:23.789 --> 00:24:24.690 Hospice. 00:24:24.723 --> 00:24:25.658 What is that? 00:24:25.691 --> 00:24:27.693 Hospice means we don't think he can live 00:24:27.726 --> 00:24:29.662 longer than six months. 00:24:29.695 --> 00:24:32.198 He's gotta eat more. 00:24:32.231 --> 00:24:34.166 Maybe if you gave him an enema, 00:24:34.200 --> 00:24:37.069 it would make room for more food. 00:24:37.103 --> 00:24:39.004 No, Mrs. Frey. 00:24:39.038 --> 00:24:41.307 You have to stop trying to force him to eat. 00:24:41.340 --> 00:24:44.276 If he doesn't eat, he's gonna die. 00:24:44.310 --> 00:24:46.178 Yes, Ma, he's going to die. 00:24:52.351 --> 00:24:55.620 Oh my God. 00:24:59.091 --> 00:25:02.328 We just figured out his Lipitor. 00:25:03.429 --> 00:25:04.330 Ma, what? 00:25:05.931 --> 00:25:08.934 We finally figured out the dosage 00:25:08.968 --> 00:25:11.137 and now he's going to die. 00:25:11.170 --> 00:25:13.005 Ma, now is not the time to be thinking 00:25:13.038 --> 00:25:14.807 about his Lipitor, okay? 00:25:25.217 --> 00:25:27.953 Nathan used to work in that building. 00:25:30.156 --> 00:25:30.990 Remember? 00:25:33.292 --> 00:25:35.361 We visited him once, 00:25:35.394 --> 00:25:40.232 and I think we took a very nice walk in the garden there. 00:25:46.505 --> 00:25:48.140 - Remember? - Yeah. 00:25:51.944 --> 00:25:53.312 I remember. 00:26:32.117 --> 00:26:34.119 Get back here. 00:26:34.420 --> 00:26:35.721 Cut it out. 00:26:36.355 --> 00:26:37.790 Do you wanna tap out? 00:26:37.823 --> 00:26:40.059 No, I do not wanna tap out. 00:26:40.092 --> 00:26:41.794 Guys, take this in another room. 00:26:43.229 --> 00:26:45.264 If you really love him, then you'll save him. 00:26:45.297 --> 00:26:46.799 She does love me. 00:26:46.832 --> 00:26:48.400 And she will save me. 00:26:48.434 --> 00:26:51.003 Guys, other room, please. 00:26:53.839 --> 00:26:55.441 - Get back here, you troll. - Don't call me a troll, 00:26:55.474 --> 00:26:57.977 - you troll. - I'm not done with you. 00:27:00.312 --> 00:27:01.480 Hey, Abbs. 00:27:01.513 --> 00:27:03.215 Sorry I haven't answered your calls. 00:27:03.249 --> 00:27:04.083 Here's the thing. 00:27:05.251 --> 00:27:05.951 I don't know if I want Mom and Dad 00:27:05.985 --> 00:27:07.786 at my birthday party next week. 00:27:09.188 --> 00:27:13.392 No matter what I do, I can't get space from them. 00:27:13.425 --> 00:27:15.394 - Get what? - What, space? 00:27:15.427 --> 00:27:16.795 What does that mean? 00:27:16.829 --> 00:27:18.330 You know what it means. 00:27:18.364 --> 00:27:20.032 Remember when we sent the thing. 00:27:20.065 --> 00:27:21.367 Oh, yes, yes, yes. 00:27:21.400 --> 00:27:23.302 Such disrespect when he did that. 00:27:23.335 --> 00:27:25.137 If I would have told my father- 00:27:25.170 --> 00:27:27.539 - Oh, Eugene, stop with the father. 00:27:27.573 --> 00:27:30.476 It's not always about your father. 00:27:30.509 --> 00:27:33.145 Okay, hey, do you want me to finish or not? 00:27:33.178 --> 00:27:34.380 Yeah, go. 00:27:34.413 --> 00:27:36.015 Okay. 00:27:36.048 --> 00:27:37.049 Karen's parents 00:27:37.082 --> 00:27:39.985 so generously offered to throw me this party. 00:27:40.019 --> 00:27:42.054 Oh, I know what's comin'. 00:27:42.087 --> 00:27:43.255 - You do? - Oh yeah. 00:27:43.289 --> 00:27:44.590 Just listen, go ahead. 00:27:44.623 --> 00:27:48.460 I think you all coming to my party without mom 00:27:48.494 --> 00:27:50.229 apologizing to Karen 00:27:50.262 --> 00:27:52.031 - for what happened. - What? 00:27:52.064 --> 00:27:52.965 Is not gonna work. 00:27:52.998 --> 00:27:53.565 There it is, I knew it. 00:27:53.599 --> 00:27:55.134 Are you kidding? 00:27:55.167 --> 00:27:56.368 - That's it. - Ma, 00:27:56.402 --> 00:27:57.336 what happened with Karen? 00:27:57.369 --> 00:27:58.537 Oh please. 00:27:58.570 --> 00:28:01.307 Her grandmother turned 100. 00:28:01.340 --> 00:28:03.942 I didn't go to the celebration 00:28:03.976 --> 00:28:08.447 because I can't be all things to all people, Abigail. 00:28:08.480 --> 00:28:09.481 You're absolutely right. 00:28:09.515 --> 00:28:10.883 Thank you. 00:28:10.916 --> 00:28:13.352 Okay, Ma, can you just apologize to Karen? 00:28:13.385 --> 00:28:14.420 Apologize? 00:28:14.453 --> 00:28:16.488 Wh, why? 00:28:16.522 --> 00:28:17.489 We're not apologizing. 00:28:17.523 --> 00:28:19.024 It was a busy week. 00:28:19.058 --> 00:28:20.125 Sue me. 00:28:20.159 --> 00:28:21.927 Over my dead fuckin' body. 00:28:21.960 --> 00:28:24.863 Over my dead fuckin' body is anyone in this family 00:28:24.897 --> 00:28:28.033 fucking apologizing to go to that fucking party? 00:28:33.439 --> 00:28:35.607 I think we should say hello. 00:28:35.642 --> 00:28:37.409 - Now? - Yeah. 00:28:37.443 --> 00:28:38.577 I talked to them. 00:28:38.610 --> 00:28:39.611 - I told them. - And? 00:28:39.646 --> 00:28:40.879 They had to be polite. 00:28:40.913 --> 00:28:41.547 Okay. 00:28:46.151 --> 00:28:49.621 - Hello, family. - Happy birthday. 00:28:49.656 --> 00:28:51.957 - Okay, thank you. - Hi, Karen. 00:28:51.990 --> 00:28:54.126 Mom, Dad. 00:28:54.159 --> 00:28:55.994 Nathan, happy birthday. 00:28:57.129 --> 00:28:57.963 Thanks. 00:29:06.171 --> 00:29:07.005 Dad? 00:29:18.984 --> 00:29:21.620 Have you put on a little weight? 00:29:29.629 --> 00:29:31.530 You're still a troll. 00:29:31.563 --> 00:29:34.099 I swear if you ask me one more time, 00:29:34.133 --> 00:29:36.468 I am going to throw you into a wall. 00:29:36.502 --> 00:29:37.436 Just cut it out. 00:29:37.469 --> 00:29:38.537 You're so annoying. 00:29:40.038 --> 00:29:44.176 Can you bring us a snack please, Mom? 00:29:44.209 --> 00:29:45.544 Yes, I'll be right there. 00:29:45.577 --> 00:29:46.445 I'll be right there. 00:29:46.478 --> 00:29:48.046 Okay. 00:29:48.080 --> 00:29:53.085 God, I- 00:29:58.223 --> 00:29:59.057 Hello? 00:30:00.592 --> 00:30:02.961 Hey, what's up? 00:30:05.364 --> 00:30:06.666 I just, uh, 00:30:08.500 --> 00:30:10.637 I wanted to talk to you about Dad. 00:30:10.670 --> 00:30:13.005 He has a degenerative condition 00:30:13.038 --> 00:30:14.973 and we've had to put him on hospice. 00:30:16.542 --> 00:30:18.711 Oh, okay. 00:30:20.647 --> 00:30:21.681 Yeah. 00:30:23.582 --> 00:30:25.551 I don't really know what else to say. 00:30:26.653 --> 00:30:27.687 Well, 00:30:31.223 --> 00:30:32.357 I'm glad you told me. 00:30:34.159 --> 00:30:37.029 If you wanted to start thinking about, 00:30:37.062 --> 00:30:38.163 you know um, 00:30:39.064 --> 00:30:39.666 if you, 00:30:41.634 --> 00:30:42.468 I don't know. 00:30:42.501 --> 00:30:44.570 It might be the last. 00:30:44.603 --> 00:30:46.639 Yeah, no, I get it. 00:30:46.673 --> 00:30:47.473 I get it. 00:30:48.574 --> 00:30:49.508 I am sorry. 00:30:49.541 --> 00:30:51.043 I know you're probably at work 00:30:51.076 --> 00:30:54.046 and so you probably need time to think about this. 00:30:54.079 --> 00:30:56.248 No, no, it's fine. 00:30:56.281 --> 00:30:58.685 I mean, I kind of have a good amount of distance 00:30:58.718 --> 00:30:59.551 from all of this. 00:31:00.653 --> 00:31:02.588 It's been so long, so 00:31:06.659 --> 00:31:09.061 I'll be down there in a couple of weeks. 00:31:09.094 --> 00:31:09.796 - What? - Yeah. 00:31:09.829 --> 00:31:11.230 I'm the distinguished lecturer 00:31:11.263 --> 00:31:12.799 at the College of Art and Design, 00:31:12.832 --> 00:31:15.467 the horticulture of the Meiji era. 00:31:15.501 --> 00:31:17.670 Being a specialist matters, I guess. 00:31:17.704 --> 00:31:19.271 Yeah, I'm sure. 00:31:21.607 --> 00:31:27.579 So, I mean, I don't want to commit to anything, but- 00:31:27.613 --> 00:31:30.249 - But there's a chance you might come see him? 00:31:30.282 --> 00:31:31.450 Well, I don't know, Abigail. 00:31:31.483 --> 00:31:32.484 I'm just saying I'll be down there. 00:31:32.518 --> 00:31:33.418 It's a long drive. 00:31:33.452 --> 00:31:35.387 So it depends on timing and- 00:31:35.420 --> 00:31:38.691 - Yeah, okay. - Bunch of stuff I have to do. 00:31:38.725 --> 00:31:40.158 Should I come? 00:31:40.192 --> 00:31:41.260 What? 00:31:41.293 --> 00:31:43.595 You know, to your lecture? 00:31:43.630 --> 00:31:44.764 Should I come? 00:31:46.231 --> 00:31:47.165 What? 00:31:47.199 --> 00:31:48.233 No, nevermind. 00:31:49.601 --> 00:31:50.737 No, yeah. 00:31:50.770 --> 00:31:51.537 Come. 00:31:52.672 --> 00:31:53.740 That's cool. 00:31:53.773 --> 00:31:55.407 Yeah? 00:31:55.440 --> 00:31:57.777 Yeah, I'll send you the information. 00:31:57.810 --> 00:31:58.610 Okay. 00:32:00.747 --> 00:32:01.714 Okay, bye. 00:32:02.581 --> 00:32:03.415 Bye. 00:32:07.720 --> 00:32:08.788 Mom? 00:32:10.622 --> 00:32:11.658 Yes, I'm coming. 00:32:12.692 --> 00:32:14.593 Yeah, we have had conversation. 00:32:14.626 --> 00:32:17.764 This is what, my job is an hour away from here. 00:32:17.797 --> 00:32:20.465 It makes no sense for me to live at home anymore. 00:32:20.499 --> 00:32:21.701 Come on. 00:32:21.734 --> 00:32:23.201 Oh, don't come on with me, kid. 00:32:23.235 --> 00:32:25.437 I worked my ass off so you can live here rent-free. 00:32:25.470 --> 00:32:26.271 - Dad. - What? 00:32:26.305 --> 00:32:27.205 Calm down. 00:32:27.239 --> 00:32:28.140 Don't tell me to calm down. 00:32:28.173 --> 00:32:29.341 I'm fuckin' calm, Abby. 00:32:29.374 --> 00:32:30.542 - This is calm. - You want things to be 00:32:30.576 --> 00:32:31.610 like they were when you were my age. 00:32:31.644 --> 00:32:33.646 And it's just not like that anymore. 00:32:33.680 --> 00:32:35.614 Well, when I was your age, if I would've told my father 00:32:35.648 --> 00:32:38.651 I want to live on my own, but he should keep paying my rent, 00:32:38.685 --> 00:32:39.752 he would have smacked me so hard 00:32:39.786 --> 00:32:41.520 I'd have lost all the teeth in my head 00:32:41.553 --> 00:32:42.755 and I woulda deserved it, kid. 00:32:42.789 --> 00:32:43.856 Karen and I are getting serious. 00:32:43.890 --> 00:32:45.490 - Karen! - Karen, who? 00:32:45.524 --> 00:32:46.258 Who is? 00:32:46.291 --> 00:32:47.392 - My girlfriend. - Is she behind 00:32:47.426 --> 00:32:48.728 the whole moving thing? 00:32:48.761 --> 00:32:50.630 - What? - You think that we don't 00:32:50.663 --> 00:32:52.564 get what's going on, Nate? 00:32:52.598 --> 00:32:53.398 We do. 00:32:53.432 --> 00:32:54.533 We know you want to live 00:32:54.566 --> 00:32:58.270 in some bachelor pleasure den. 00:32:58.303 --> 00:32:59.438 Oh, Ma, stop. 00:32:59.471 --> 00:33:00.606 Shut up, Abby. 00:33:00.640 --> 00:33:02.642 You think I want to move out so I can have sex 00:33:02.675 --> 00:33:04.309 - with Karen? - Yeah. 00:33:04.343 --> 00:33:06.646 Well, news flash, we already have. 00:33:06.679 --> 00:33:08.447 - What? - Oh Jesus. 00:33:08.480 --> 00:33:09.281 Oh God. 00:33:09.314 --> 00:33:10.783 Everyone has sex. 00:33:10.817 --> 00:33:12.752 You're the only people who refuse to acknowledge that 00:33:12.785 --> 00:33:15.253 because you're so out of touch with reality. 00:33:15.287 --> 00:33:16.856 It's like you're living in the Dark Ages. 00:33:16.889 --> 00:33:18.490 Do not yell at your mother. 00:33:18.523 --> 00:33:20.860 I'm so Sick of your authoritarian bullshit, Dad! 00:33:20.893 --> 00:33:21.928 I'm warning you. 00:33:21.961 --> 00:33:23.295 Nathan, your father is 00:33:23.328 --> 00:33:24.363 - busting his ass- - Stop, stop, 00:33:24.396 --> 00:33:25.564 stop defending him. 00:33:25.597 --> 00:33:27.599 You gave up your life to be his servant. 00:33:27.634 --> 00:33:28.500 And I am tired of shutting up about the fact 00:33:28.533 --> 00:33:30.670 that you love him more than you love us. 00:33:30.703 --> 00:33:31.603 Stop, stop, Dad, please. 00:33:31.638 --> 00:33:32.805 Where are you goin'? 00:33:32.839 --> 00:33:34.741 Where are you goin'? 00:33:34.774 --> 00:33:36.375 Get out of here! 00:33:36.408 --> 00:33:37.810 Talking to your mother like that. 00:33:37.844 --> 00:33:38.678 Get out. 00:33:39.846 --> 00:33:41.480 Get out of here, get out of here. 00:33:41.513 --> 00:33:43.650 - You're not so smart, Nathan. - Get outta here. 00:33:43.683 --> 00:33:44.751 - Fuckin' dicks, man. - You don't know anything. 00:33:44.784 --> 00:33:46.184 - You're flinchin', huh? - Get out of, 00:33:46.218 --> 00:33:47.252 get the hell out. 00:33:47.285 --> 00:33:48.688 Where you goin'? 00:33:48.721 --> 00:33:50.188 - I just- - No, 00:33:50.222 --> 00:33:51.858 you're not goin' anywhere, we're gonna have dinner. 00:33:54.861 --> 00:33:55.662 Okay. 00:33:56.595 --> 00:33:58.263 So, what should we talk about? 00:33:58.296 --> 00:33:58.898 Abby? 00:34:00.232 --> 00:34:01.734 Have a nice day today? 00:34:03.736 --> 00:34:04.871 Ah. 00:34:14.579 --> 00:34:15.782 Hello. 00:34:15.815 --> 00:34:16.916 Hi. 00:34:16.949 --> 00:34:17.750 You're early. 00:34:17.784 --> 00:34:18.951 Hello, Miss Abigail. 00:34:20.352 --> 00:34:22.254 You could call me Abby at this point. 00:34:22.287 --> 00:34:22.889 Abby. 00:34:24.289 --> 00:34:26.391 - Short for Abigail. - Yeah, no, I got it. 00:34:26.425 --> 00:34:27.860 Of course you do. 00:34:27.894 --> 00:34:30.730 I mean, I'm pretty sure I said it'd be around noon. 00:34:31.864 --> 00:34:32.799 And look at that. 00:34:33.900 --> 00:34:35.434 It is noon. 00:34:35.467 --> 00:34:36.936 - It is. - Thought it was not, 00:34:36.969 --> 00:34:38.638 but it is. 00:34:38.671 --> 00:34:40.272 Can I take this out for you? 00:34:40.305 --> 00:34:42.642 Trade you my empty water bottle for the trash? 00:34:42.675 --> 00:34:46.813 Sure, but I can fill this with water for you. 00:34:46.846 --> 00:34:48.848 That is the thing that could happen. 00:34:48.881 --> 00:34:49.982 - Mm-hm. - Mm-hm. 00:34:50.016 --> 00:34:51.383 - Yup. - Yup. 00:34:52.517 --> 00:34:54.486 Well, I will be right back. 00:34:54.519 --> 00:34:55.353 Okay. 00:34:56.656 --> 00:34:57.489 All right. 00:35:09.068 --> 00:35:10.870 Here you go. 00:35:10.903 --> 00:35:12.404 - Thank you. - No problem. 00:35:14.473 --> 00:35:16.876 So, cupcakes. 00:35:16.909 --> 00:35:17.677 Uh huh. 00:35:18.610 --> 00:35:22.414 Yup, that is what I am doing. 00:35:26.853 --> 00:35:29.021 Uh, Mom, I can't really talk right now 00:35:29.055 --> 00:35:30.823 - because I have people over. - Oh my God, 00:35:30.857 --> 00:35:33.793 did you know if you sleep with your mouth open 00:35:33.826 --> 00:35:37.063 and don't swallow enough, you get sores in your mouth? 00:35:37.096 --> 00:35:38.030 Mom. 00:35:38.064 --> 00:35:39.031 Your father has so many sores. 00:35:39.065 --> 00:35:39.832 Mom, Mom. 00:35:39.866 --> 00:35:42.534 - Mom. - Because his swallow reflex 00:35:42.567 --> 00:35:43.770 is so messed up. 00:35:43.803 --> 00:35:45.403 Ma I can't talk right now. 00:35:45.437 --> 00:35:46.571 I have somebody over here. 00:35:46.605 --> 00:35:47.874 - Okay? - Oh. 00:35:47.907 --> 00:35:49.842 Since, when do you have people there? 00:35:49.876 --> 00:35:51.077 - Ma, I was just. - Hey. 00:35:51.110 --> 00:35:53.746 Hello there, muscles. 00:35:53.780 --> 00:35:54.680 Hello yourself. 00:35:54.714 --> 00:35:55.915 I'm Jay, the landscaper. 00:35:55.948 --> 00:35:56.816 You really don't have to do this. 00:35:56.849 --> 00:35:58.084 Oh, I don't mind. 00:35:58.117 --> 00:35:59.919 I see where Abigail gets her good looks. 00:35:59.952 --> 00:36:01.020 - Oh wow. - Jay, 00:36:01.053 --> 00:36:03.656 flattery will get you everywhere. 00:36:03.689 --> 00:36:06.092 I've got some landscaping I could use some help with. 00:36:06.125 --> 00:36:08.527 Oh my God, I want to die. 00:36:08.560 --> 00:36:10.362 - Just a sec. - Okay, okay. 00:36:10.395 --> 00:36:12.597 Abigail, your father needs that stuff 00:36:12.632 --> 00:36:14.734 that makes water easier to swallow. 00:36:14.767 --> 00:36:16.535 He's gagging and drooling. 00:36:16.568 --> 00:36:18.871 Ma, I'm gonna call you back later. 00:36:18.905 --> 00:36:19.939 Okay? 00:36:22.607 --> 00:36:23.910 Mm. 00:36:23.943 --> 00:36:25.745 Moms, right? 00:36:25.778 --> 00:36:27.847 Yeah, that's one way to put it. 00:36:27.880 --> 00:36:29.548 Ma, are our cupcakes done yet? 00:36:29.581 --> 00:36:31.483 Yeah. I'm working on it. 00:36:31.516 --> 00:36:33.518 - Sorry. - Don't be. 00:36:33.552 --> 00:36:34.452 I'll get outta here. 00:36:34.486 --> 00:36:35.554 - Get to work. - Okay. 00:36:37.657 --> 00:36:38.758 Jay? 00:36:38.791 --> 00:36:40.960 - Yeah? - I, 00:36:40.993 --> 00:36:44.864 huh, you might not want to do this, 00:36:44.897 --> 00:36:48.734 but I have some extra tickets to this lecture 00:36:48.768 --> 00:36:51.904 on magical Japanese gardens. 00:36:51.938 --> 00:36:54.506 You know, you are a landscaper. 00:36:54.539 --> 00:36:56.909 Meiji era is what this is about. 00:36:56.943 --> 00:36:59.846 And you know, maybe you might- 00:36:59.879 --> 00:37:03.049 - Wow, that is a very specific topic. 00:37:03.082 --> 00:37:03.916 I know. 00:37:05.718 --> 00:37:06.919 Yeah, sure, sounds good. 00:37:06.953 --> 00:37:08.420 When is it? 00:37:08.453 --> 00:37:09.689 Tomorrow? 00:37:09.722 --> 00:37:10.923 Tomorrow? 00:37:10.957 --> 00:37:12.357 What, you think I had no other plans? 00:37:13.726 --> 00:37:14.694 Yeah, I'm sure you do. 00:37:14.727 --> 00:37:17.997 No, I don't have any other plans. 00:37:19.598 --> 00:37:20.432 Okay. 00:37:21.734 --> 00:37:22.935 Okay. 00:37:22.969 --> 00:37:25.171 I should also tell you that the lecturer is my brother. 00:37:25.204 --> 00:37:28.107 He's a professor and this is his specialty. 00:37:28.140 --> 00:37:31.443 So it is going to be him there. 00:37:31.476 --> 00:37:32.611 I haven't seen him in a long time, 00:37:32.645 --> 00:37:34.947 so it's kind of a big deal. 00:37:34.981 --> 00:37:36.849 Wow, so first I flirt with your mom, 00:37:36.883 --> 00:37:38.084 now you want me to meet your brother? 00:37:38.117 --> 00:37:39.618 Yeah, I'd like you to forget about that. 00:37:39.652 --> 00:37:43.089 But this might be a terrible idea as well. 00:37:43.122 --> 00:37:44.123 So just don't worry about it. 00:37:44.156 --> 00:37:45.091 You know what? 00:37:45.124 --> 00:37:48.060 Let's add in sushi before and it's a deal. 00:37:49.996 --> 00:37:51.030 Okay. 00:37:51.063 --> 00:37:52.064 Okay. 00:37:52.098 --> 00:37:53.398 - Great. - Cool. 00:37:55.067 --> 00:37:56.468 - Okay. - Okay. 00:38:06.712 --> 00:38:08.814 The forest 00:38:10.149 --> 00:38:11.017 was caps. 00:38:14.921 --> 00:38:16.155 You're talking silly talk. 00:38:35.141 --> 00:38:36.776 I worked so goddamn hard, 00:38:36.809 --> 00:38:39.577 for every day of my fuckin' life, 00:38:39.611 --> 00:38:41.113 and this is the thanks I get? 00:38:41.147 --> 00:38:42.748 Abby. 00:38:42.782 --> 00:38:44.183 Abby, Abby, honey. 00:38:44.216 --> 00:38:45.617 Sweetie, sweetie pie, wake up. 00:38:45.651 --> 00:38:47.053 Wake up, wake up. 00:38:47.086 --> 00:38:47.853 Come on, we gotta get up. 00:38:47.887 --> 00:38:50.522 - What's goin' on? - We gotta go. 00:38:50.555 --> 00:38:52.058 We gotta go, put your shoes on. 00:38:52.091 --> 00:38:53.092 Why? 00:38:53.125 --> 00:38:53.926 Come on. 00:38:53.960 --> 00:38:54.760 'Cause we have to. 00:38:54.794 --> 00:38:55.928 Hurry up. 00:38:55.962 --> 00:38:56.862 I'm gonna get Nathan. 00:38:56.896 --> 00:38:57.763 Come on, sweetie, come on. 00:38:57.797 --> 00:38:58.798 - Okay. - Okay. 00:38:58.831 --> 00:39:01.566 Barbara, you are such a selfish cunt. 00:39:03.102 --> 00:39:06.038 I don't need any of this shit. 00:39:06.072 --> 00:39:08.207 Oh, you're taking them away. 00:39:08.240 --> 00:39:09.275 Go ahead. 00:39:09.308 --> 00:39:12.712 Go ahead, see if I fuckin' care. 00:39:19.218 --> 00:39:21.087 Daddy just needs to cool off. 00:39:21.120 --> 00:39:22.121 You know how he gets. 00:39:22.154 --> 00:39:24.556 He's under a lot of stress at work. 00:39:36.102 --> 00:39:38.037 Okay, you guys, 00:39:38.070 --> 00:39:39.138 I'll see you in the morning, sweetie. 00:39:39.171 --> 00:39:40.940 - No. - I love you. 00:39:40.973 --> 00:39:41.807 No. 00:39:42.975 --> 00:39:44.176 Don't go. 00:39:44.210 --> 00:39:45.177 Love you. 00:39:57.356 --> 00:39:59.258 - Nate? - What? 00:40:01.160 --> 00:40:03.662 - Where's the moon? - What? 00:40:04.897 --> 00:40:05.731 Where is it? 00:40:05.765 --> 00:40:07.299 It's not in the sky. 00:40:07.333 --> 00:40:08.634 Oh. 00:40:08.667 --> 00:40:09.802 It's called a new moon. 00:40:12.271 --> 00:40:13.139 Go to sleep. 00:40:18.144 --> 00:40:20.079 Are Mom and Dad gonna be okay? 00:40:25.151 --> 00:40:26.952 I don't know, sis. 00:40:26.986 --> 00:40:27.987 I don't know. 00:40:28.020 --> 00:40:29.288 Go to sleep. 00:40:46.672 --> 00:40:47.740 Hey, there you are. 00:40:47.773 --> 00:40:49.108 Hi. 00:40:49.141 --> 00:40:50.976 I am so sorry that I am late. 00:40:51.010 --> 00:40:52.645 I'd like to tell you that I'm not typically late, 00:40:52.678 --> 00:40:55.281 but I am always late and it is not because I value my time 00:40:55.314 --> 00:40:56.248 more than yours. 00:40:56.282 --> 00:40:58.284 It's just, I put things places, 00:40:58.317 --> 00:40:59.617 and then I can't find them, 00:40:59.652 --> 00:41:02.221 things that are important like the keys. 00:41:02.254 --> 00:41:03.222 I'm sorry. 00:41:03.255 --> 00:41:04.757 It's okay. 00:41:04.790 --> 00:41:05.991 - Hi. - Hi. 00:41:18.904 --> 00:41:20.139 I'm gonna get started here. 00:41:20.172 --> 00:41:21.407 Please take your seats. 00:41:23.142 --> 00:41:25.744 Well, feel like I'm back in college. 00:41:27.313 --> 00:41:29.248 Thought you didn't go to college. 00:41:29.281 --> 00:41:31.784 Wow, not used to dates who listen. 00:41:31.817 --> 00:41:33.018 Here today. 00:41:33.052 --> 00:41:36.188 You can you can hear me, right? 00:41:36.222 --> 00:41:38.257 - This is on- - God. 00:41:38.290 --> 00:41:39.892 I'm Nathaniel Frey. 00:41:39.925 --> 00:41:41.393 I mean, he looks exactly like my dad. 00:41:41.427 --> 00:41:45.431 The College of Art and Design is very close to my heart. 00:41:45.464 --> 00:41:47.433 So let's just jump in. 00:41:47.466 --> 00:41:49.201 If we can get the lights. 00:41:51.036 --> 00:41:53.205 The Meiji Period is one which has. 00:41:54.740 --> 00:41:55.674 Okay, so what do we do? 00:41:55.708 --> 00:41:56.442 This is who they are. 00:41:56.475 --> 00:41:57.843 Nathan, you should have heard 00:41:57.877 --> 00:41:59.111 what she was saying in there. 00:41:59.145 --> 00:42:01.247 Abby, you have to get yourself out of there. 00:42:02.348 --> 00:42:03.282 - Nate. - One sec. 00:42:06.752 --> 00:42:08.287 Abbs, I gotta go. 00:42:08.320 --> 00:42:09.321 Get out of there. 00:42:09.355 --> 00:42:10.256 What am I suppose to do? 00:42:10.289 --> 00:42:12.224 How am I supposed to? 00:42:14.326 --> 00:42:15.127 - Nathan. - Do what you need to, 00:42:15.161 --> 00:42:16.095 do what you need to. 00:42:16.128 --> 00:42:17.163 - I gotta go. - Nathan. 00:42:17.196 --> 00:42:21.967 Is best left to the gods and not the gardeners. 00:42:30.910 --> 00:42:32.378 I'll meet you at the car? 00:42:32.411 --> 00:42:33.345 Okay. 00:42:33.379 --> 00:42:34.346 Good luck. 00:42:35.314 --> 00:42:37.216 - Okay. - So thank you guys. 00:42:48.327 --> 00:42:49.261 Hey. 00:42:51.130 --> 00:42:52.798 Do we hug? 00:42:52.831 --> 00:42:53.432 Okay. 00:42:55.834 --> 00:42:57.236 That was so cool to see you in action. 00:42:57.269 --> 00:42:58.237 You're so passionate. 00:42:58.270 --> 00:42:59.805 Thank you, thank you. 00:42:59.838 --> 00:43:02.041 You're just really well versed and all. 00:43:02.074 --> 00:43:04.043 Yeah, they asked me to do this lecture and I was like, 00:43:04.076 --> 00:43:06.378 I just did this at the University of Tokyo. 00:43:06.412 --> 00:43:08.380 So I wasn't even sure I wanted to come. 00:43:08.414 --> 00:43:12.251 But there's not many of us with this level of expertise. 00:43:12.284 --> 00:43:13.419 Of course. 00:43:16.121 --> 00:43:16.956 So, 00:43:19.992 --> 00:43:23.495 is now a good time to talk about Dad? 00:43:24.997 --> 00:43:25.831 Sure. 00:43:26.498 --> 00:43:27.433 - Yeah. - Okay. 00:43:47.286 --> 00:43:48.454 So just so we're clear here, 00:43:48.487 --> 00:43:53.158 I'm not generally curious about our parents. 00:43:53.192 --> 00:43:54.960 If I was, I wouldn't have chosen to stay out of their lives 00:43:54.994 --> 00:43:56.328 for the past 20 years. 00:44:02.468 --> 00:44:03.936 But, um, 00:44:06.505 --> 00:44:11.310 do you want to tell me how he is? 00:44:11.343 --> 00:44:13.512 Like for you? 00:44:17.283 --> 00:44:19.151 So much has happened since you left. 00:44:21.854 --> 00:44:23.889 Dad was hospitalized a few years ago, 00:44:26.258 --> 00:44:27.393 mental breakdown, 00:44:28.327 --> 00:44:29.495 diagnosis bipolar. 00:44:30.396 --> 00:44:32.097 And Mom, 00:44:33.332 --> 00:44:35.301 I mean, she's never been formally diagnosed, 00:44:35.334 --> 00:44:38.437 but you know it's very borderline personality disorder. 00:44:38.470 --> 00:44:40.539 Okay, so now these things have names. 00:44:44.209 --> 00:44:45.878 He's like bad, Nathan. 00:44:48.113 --> 00:44:51.917 I mean, he can't stand up on his own. 00:44:51.950 --> 00:44:53.352 He's refusing to eat. 00:44:55.387 --> 00:44:58.590 This really is it. 00:44:58.624 --> 00:45:01.393 So if there's any part of you that wants to see him, 00:45:03.395 --> 00:45:06.899 now would be the time. 00:45:14.540 --> 00:45:16.408 I don't think I can go see him. 00:45:18.210 --> 00:45:19.545 Yeah. 00:45:19.578 --> 00:45:20.512 - I'm sorry. - Okay. 00:45:20.546 --> 00:45:21.880 No. 00:45:21.914 --> 00:45:22.915 Thanks for coming. 00:45:23.549 --> 00:45:24.583 Yeah. 00:45:30.489 --> 00:45:32.091 It's because of her. 00:45:34.593 --> 00:45:36.328 - What? - I don't want to see her. 00:45:37.196 --> 00:45:40.165 I don't, I really don't want to see her. 00:45:40.199 --> 00:45:41.033 Okay. 00:45:42.000 --> 00:45:43.602 Can I ask you why? 00:45:49.341 --> 00:45:50.175 Yeah. 00:45:52.411 --> 00:45:54.113 His wreckage was 00:45:56.315 --> 00:45:57.149 tangible. 00:45:59.952 --> 00:46:03.455 Hers was so insidious and disturbing. 00:46:06.125 --> 00:46:07.526 I just can't go there. 00:46:09.361 --> 00:46:10.195 Okay. 00:46:12.531 --> 00:46:13.999 What if she wasn't there? 00:46:16.502 --> 00:46:17.970 What? 00:46:18.003 --> 00:46:19.706 What if she wasn't there? 00:46:19.739 --> 00:46:21.206 - Wow. - Yeah. 00:46:22.241 --> 00:46:23.643 That's a good start for you. 00:46:25.043 --> 00:46:26.478 So your life is just always 00:46:26.512 --> 00:46:29.548 kind of like this emotion, this intensity? 00:46:29.581 --> 00:46:32.151 You havin' to fix everything? 00:46:32.184 --> 00:46:33.018 Yeah. 00:46:34.453 --> 00:46:35.487 Yeah, it's all I know. 00:46:37.156 --> 00:46:40.492 But this, I mean, how am I supposed to tell my mother 00:46:40.526 --> 00:46:42.227 that she can't be there when her son, 00:46:42.261 --> 00:46:43.663 who she hasn't seen for 20 years, 00:46:43.696 --> 00:46:46.398 visits her husband who is dying. 00:46:47.634 --> 00:46:48.668 I just, 00:46:50.102 --> 00:46:52.104 I don't know how to tackle that one yet. 00:46:54.440 --> 00:46:55.574 But I've got to fix it. 00:46:57.109 --> 00:46:58.076 I said I'd fix it. 00:47:01.648 --> 00:47:03.716 Well, I kind of fix for a living. 00:47:03.750 --> 00:47:05.417 And I can tell you this, 00:47:06.518 --> 00:47:09.555 things will keep breaking. 00:47:13.158 --> 00:47:14.727 So what are you gonna do? 00:47:22.669 --> 00:47:23.736 I'm so sorry. 00:47:23.770 --> 00:47:25.772 - It's okay. - I really wanna do this. 00:47:25.805 --> 00:47:27.206 It's okay. 00:47:27.239 --> 00:47:28.407 Just in case something. 00:47:28.440 --> 00:47:30.042 Oh, say hi for me. 00:47:30.075 --> 00:47:31.109 - Who's that? - Nobody. 00:47:31.143 --> 00:47:32.544 It's me, the landscaper. 00:47:32.578 --> 00:47:34.146 Oh, Jed. 00:47:34.179 --> 00:47:35.380 Jay. 00:47:35.414 --> 00:47:36.783 What are you crazy kids up to? 00:47:36.816 --> 00:47:38.651 I'm not, 00:47:38.685 --> 00:47:39.752 Ma, let me call you tomorrow. 00:47:39.786 --> 00:47:41.453 - Okay? - Okay. 00:47:41.487 --> 00:47:44.791 And Jeff, make sure to come to Eugene's birthday party 00:47:44.824 --> 00:47:46.258 next week. 00:47:46.291 --> 00:47:47.794 It's likely the last one he'll ever have. 00:47:47.827 --> 00:47:49.629 - Mom. - I would love to, 00:47:49.662 --> 00:47:52.231 but my parents are going to be in town from Oakland. 00:47:52.264 --> 00:47:53.365 So he has plans. 00:47:53.398 --> 00:47:54.500 - Plans. - Great. 00:47:54.533 --> 00:47:55.467 Bring them too. 00:47:55.501 --> 00:47:57.069 - The more, the merrier. - Oh, God in heaven. 00:47:57.102 --> 00:47:58.604 No, Ma. 00:47:58.638 --> 00:48:01.106 It's a party, Abigail. 00:48:01.139 --> 00:48:04.142 Don't you want to celebrate your father's last birthday 00:48:04.176 --> 00:48:07.412 and let him see you finally got a date? 00:48:07.446 --> 00:48:11.316 Okay, Ma, I'm calling you tomorrow. 00:48:11.350 --> 00:48:12.117 - Bye, love you. - Goodbye. 00:48:12.150 --> 00:48:12.785 Bye. 00:48:17.222 --> 00:48:19.659 What are you doing? 00:48:19.692 --> 00:48:22.662 Securing the weirdest second date ever. 00:48:22.695 --> 00:48:23.763 - Truly. - Truly. 00:48:24.797 --> 00:48:26.265 Like being around you. 00:48:30.502 --> 00:48:32.337 This isn't too much? 00:48:33.873 --> 00:48:35.407 It's so messy. 00:48:36.876 --> 00:48:38.510 That's not how I see it. 00:48:56.796 --> 00:48:58.597 My mom gets weird at parties. 00:48:58.631 --> 00:49:01.466 Her behavior is not a reflection on me. 00:49:01.500 --> 00:49:03.670 Today is about my dad. 00:49:03.703 --> 00:49:07.640 I can do for an hour, what I couldn't do for a lifetime. 00:49:07.674 --> 00:49:09.241 I am not her. 00:49:09.274 --> 00:49:10.342 She is not me. 00:49:15.147 --> 00:49:16.415 Okay, party people. 00:49:16.883 --> 00:49:18.417 Let's do this. 00:49:21.688 --> 00:49:23.188 Where is the... 00:49:24.356 --> 00:49:25.190 birthday boy? 00:49:25.223 --> 00:49:26.291 Hi. 00:49:26.325 --> 00:49:27.660 Hello. 00:49:27.694 --> 00:49:28.861 - How are you? - Good. 00:49:30.162 --> 00:49:32.699 Darrin, Dad, this is Jay. 00:49:32.732 --> 00:49:34.199 Hello, Mr. Frey. 00:49:34.801 --> 00:49:36.368 Hi. 00:49:36.401 --> 00:49:37.870 - Hi. - Sup. 00:49:37.904 --> 00:49:40.172 All high fives and handshakes and. 00:49:40.907 --> 00:49:44.343 This is Billy and Marge, 00:49:44.376 --> 00:49:46.244 sorry, Marge and Billy. 00:49:46.278 --> 00:49:48.547 These are Jay's parents and they're celebrating with us 00:49:48.580 --> 00:49:49.716 because they are in town. 00:49:49.749 --> 00:49:50.750 - How are you, Mr. Frey? - Happy birthday. 00:49:50.783 --> 00:49:52.284 Where's the dad? 00:49:53.619 --> 00:49:55.187 - Hi, Ma. - Hi. 00:49:55.220 --> 00:49:56.254 Hello. 00:49:57.289 --> 00:49:58.658 Hello, welcome. 00:49:58.691 --> 00:49:59.892 Can I get you a drink? 00:49:59.926 --> 00:50:01.894 We have mimosas. 00:50:01.928 --> 00:50:03.462 Come on, Jed. 00:50:03.495 --> 00:50:04.764 Jay, Mom. 00:50:04.797 --> 00:50:05.765 I'm sorry. 00:50:05.798 --> 00:50:06.733 It's okay. 00:50:08.400 --> 00:50:09.234 Okay. 00:50:10.870 --> 00:50:13.405 - The father didn't come? - Dad. 00:50:14.707 --> 00:50:16.174 So how is your day? 00:50:16.208 --> 00:50:16.809 Oh. 00:50:16.843 --> 00:50:18.276 It's been up and down. 00:50:18.310 --> 00:50:19.879 We took a nice walk in the park, right Mr. F? 00:50:19.912 --> 00:50:20.947 Okay. 00:50:20.980 --> 00:50:22.414 Just okay? 00:50:22.447 --> 00:50:23.382 Come on, we saw a three legged dog. 00:50:23.415 --> 00:50:24.616 We checked out the ladies. 00:50:24.651 --> 00:50:25.918 We saw the little kid who fell on his face 00:50:25.952 --> 00:50:27.386 when he tripped on that sprinkler. 00:50:27.419 --> 00:50:28.955 We laughed a little bit. 00:50:30.723 --> 00:50:31.658 What? 00:50:31.691 --> 00:50:33.558 - It was funny. - Oh my God. 00:50:33.592 --> 00:50:35.327 Laughing at little kids falling down. 00:50:35.360 --> 00:50:36.729 - Speaking of little kids. - Hi, Mom. 00:50:36.763 --> 00:50:37.797 Hello. 00:50:37.830 --> 00:50:40.198 Oh, are you having a good day? 00:50:40.232 --> 00:50:40.967 Missed you. 00:50:41.000 --> 00:50:42.467 - Hi. - Hi. 00:50:42.501 --> 00:50:43.803 Hiding in the back room? 00:50:43.836 --> 00:50:45.772 Your mom was having a moment or three. 00:50:45.805 --> 00:50:46.806 Uh-huh, yeah. 00:50:46.839 --> 00:50:48.908 Along with her mimosa or three. 00:50:49.876 --> 00:50:50.843 I'm sorry. 00:50:52.310 --> 00:50:53.412 You're supposed to talk to her about drinking 00:50:53.445 --> 00:50:54.814 - in front of the boys. - I know. 00:50:54.847 --> 00:50:56.381 I just. 00:50:56.415 --> 00:50:57.282 It needs to happen. 00:50:57.315 --> 00:50:58.851 I will do it. 00:50:58.885 --> 00:50:59.686 Hi, Jay. 00:50:59.719 --> 00:51:00.519 Hey, Peter. 00:51:00.552 --> 00:51:01.754 Good to see ya. 00:51:01.788 --> 00:51:02.755 Hey fellas. 00:51:02.789 --> 00:51:04.356 When is cake time? 00:51:04.824 --> 00:51:09.829 ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪ 00:51:10.029 --> 00:51:13.900 ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪ 00:51:13.933 --> 00:51:18.905 ♪ Happy birthday, dear Eugene ♪ 00:51:19.839 --> 00:51:22.809 ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪ 00:51:22.842 --> 00:51:25.712 - Happy birthday, dad. - Blow 'em out, Mr. F. 00:51:31.283 --> 00:51:33.251 I'd say it went pretty well. 00:51:33.285 --> 00:51:35.788 I wish Nathan was here. 00:51:41.493 --> 00:51:42.795 All right. 00:51:42.829 --> 00:51:47.399 Let's get this cake served. 00:51:47.432 --> 00:51:49.635 Nice piece for you, Eugene. 00:51:49.669 --> 00:51:51.269 - I don't want it. - Yes, you do. 00:51:51.303 --> 00:51:53.405 - You love this cake. - No, I don't want it. 00:51:53.438 --> 00:51:55.407 - You do. - I don't. 00:51:55.440 --> 00:51:56.575 I don't want it. 00:51:56.608 --> 00:51:57.677 - Yes you do, Eugene. - No, I don't. 00:51:57.710 --> 00:51:58.510 Yes, you do. 00:51:58.543 --> 00:51:59.444 Come on, Eugene. 00:51:59.478 --> 00:52:00.278 God dammit. 00:52:00.312 --> 00:52:01.681 I don't, please. 00:52:01.714 --> 00:52:02.514 - Ma. - Mommy, 00:52:02.547 --> 00:52:03.950 maybe he's not hungry. 00:52:03.983 --> 00:52:05.718 No, that is not an option. 00:52:05.752 --> 00:52:06.953 It's his birthday. 00:52:06.986 --> 00:52:08.988 He has to eat his cake. 00:52:09.021 --> 00:52:09.922 Okay, you know what, Mrs. F? 00:52:09.956 --> 00:52:10.857 Maybe you should back off. 00:52:10.890 --> 00:52:11.791 Let's just take a walk. 00:52:11.824 --> 00:52:13.760 It's his favorite cake. 00:52:13.793 --> 00:52:14.761 He loves it. 00:52:14.794 --> 00:52:18.430 We're all going to enjoy it together, God dammit. 00:52:18.463 --> 00:52:19.364 You know what, Mrs. F? 00:52:19.397 --> 00:52:20.565 I'm just asking you to stop. 00:52:20.599 --> 00:52:23.703 Darrin, I don't recall asking your opinion. 00:52:23.736 --> 00:52:25.638 Just know your place. 00:52:25.671 --> 00:52:27.740 - Okay, know your place. - Oh, hell no. 00:52:27.774 --> 00:52:28.941 Darrin, I'll handle this. 00:52:28.975 --> 00:52:30.408 - Abigail? - Yes? 00:52:30.442 --> 00:52:31.744 I think we're just gonna grab a ride, 00:52:31.778 --> 00:52:32.678 but I'll call you. 00:52:32.712 --> 00:52:33.880 All right, I'll call you. 00:52:33.913 --> 00:52:35.848 That's just, okay. 00:52:35.882 --> 00:52:37.449 - Thank you. - Honey, hush. 00:52:37.482 --> 00:52:38.885 Let's just get out of here. 00:52:38.918 --> 00:52:41.319 We can talk about this later. 00:52:42.354 --> 00:52:43.923 Why are you sending them away? 00:52:43.956 --> 00:52:44.991 Because, Ma. 00:52:45.024 --> 00:52:46.391 You know what, Dad? 00:52:46.424 --> 00:52:48.326 Let's get you down to take a nap. 00:52:48.360 --> 00:52:49.461 You've had a big day. 00:52:49.494 --> 00:52:50.763 Let's get you down okay. 00:52:50.797 --> 00:52:51.731 You just broke up the party. 00:52:51.764 --> 00:52:54.000 Hey Darrin, can I borrow you for a second? 00:52:54.033 --> 00:52:54.901 Yeah, of course. 00:52:54.934 --> 00:52:55.735 - Can you help? - Yeah. 00:52:55.768 --> 00:52:57.402 Thanks, I got the chair. 00:52:57.435 --> 00:52:58.805 - I got ya, Mr. F. - Hey, hey, hey. 00:52:58.838 --> 00:53:02.407 No one naps until they eat their cake, Darrin. 00:53:02.440 --> 00:53:03.943 We're gonna go. 00:53:03.976 --> 00:53:05.011 Come on, Dad. 00:53:15.788 --> 00:53:17.990 If it were my last birthday on Earth, 00:53:19.692 --> 00:53:20.893 I would eat this cake. 00:53:38.911 --> 00:53:39.946 Daddy. 00:54:36.102 --> 00:54:37.069 Sit down, sit down. 00:54:37.103 --> 00:54:38.204 I need to talk to you. 00:54:38.237 --> 00:54:41.207 Dad, I really don't- 00:54:41.240 --> 00:54:44.710 - You know your mom and I had a big fight, right? 00:54:44.744 --> 00:54:46.846 She doesn't like me smoking pot. 00:54:46.879 --> 00:54:48.948 You know, it's not like I'm hurting anybody. 00:54:48.981 --> 00:54:52.118 It's not like something I don't have complete control over. 00:54:53.252 --> 00:54:55.154 I'm thinking of moving back to the city. 00:54:55.187 --> 00:54:56.856 What? 00:54:56.889 --> 00:54:59.959 No, but I came out here because your mom wanted to, 00:54:59.992 --> 00:55:03.129 I wanted to stay there because that's where the energy is. 00:55:03.930 --> 00:55:05.765 I'm an artist, Abby. 00:55:05.798 --> 00:55:08.801 I'm a writer, I want to write the great American novel. 00:55:08.834 --> 00:55:11.103 - Dad. - But there's no energy here. 00:55:11.137 --> 00:55:12.537 Dad, just- 00:55:12.570 --> 00:55:14.640 - My psychiatrist says that if he were me, 00:55:14.674 --> 00:55:16.541 he would blow his fuckin' brains out 00:55:16.574 --> 00:55:18.144 if he had a wife who was this frigid 00:55:18.177 --> 00:55:20.146 and a son who wouldn't talk to him. 00:55:21.814 --> 00:55:23.683 There's no love for me here, Abby. 00:55:27.053 --> 00:55:29.088 How could you say that to me? 00:55:29.121 --> 00:55:30.056 I'm here. 00:55:30.089 --> 00:55:31.190 I love you. 00:55:33.960 --> 00:55:35.661 Have you spoken to your brother? 00:55:39.832 --> 00:55:40.666 No. 00:55:45.137 --> 00:55:48.606 My Abby, my Abby, my Abby. 00:55:50.009 --> 00:55:51.509 You know me better than anybody. 00:55:51.543 --> 00:55:52.945 You always have. 00:55:52.979 --> 00:55:54.914 You know me better than your mother. 00:55:56.148 --> 00:55:57.183 That's for sure. 00:55:58.050 --> 00:55:59.051 Thank you. 00:55:59.085 --> 00:56:01.087 I gotta go to the bathroom. 00:56:16.702 --> 00:56:17.770 Hey. 00:56:17.803 --> 00:56:19.205 Hey. 00:56:19.238 --> 00:56:21.040 He's asleep. 00:56:21.073 --> 00:56:21.874 He's asleep? 00:56:21.907 --> 00:56:23.109 He is, yeah. 00:56:25.144 --> 00:56:26.178 Okay. 00:56:28.047 --> 00:56:29.015 I didn't know my cake 00:56:29.048 --> 00:56:32.284 would become such a big part of the evening. 00:56:35.354 --> 00:56:36.789 The cake was delicious, Ma. 00:56:36.822 --> 00:56:37.790 I know it was. 00:56:41.093 --> 00:56:42.228 I spoke to Nathan. 00:56:45.698 --> 00:56:46.564 You called him? 00:56:48.734 --> 00:56:49.567 I did. 00:56:51.971 --> 00:56:53.039 He wants to see Dad. 00:56:56.909 --> 00:56:57.843 Wow. 00:57:01.814 --> 00:57:05.851 Wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow, wow. 00:57:05.885 --> 00:57:06.719 Yeah. 00:57:09.255 --> 00:57:11.724 When, wh, when does he want to come? 00:57:16.362 --> 00:57:17.630 He can come tomorrow. 00:57:17.663 --> 00:57:18.631 Oh God. 00:57:18.664 --> 00:57:21.967 Oh, well, huh, soon. 00:57:25.337 --> 00:57:26.305 But, uh, 00:57:29.675 --> 00:57:30.309 here's the thing. 00:57:31.811 --> 00:57:34.280 He is not ready to see you yet. 00:57:41.654 --> 00:57:45.324 Huh. 00:57:45.357 --> 00:57:46.192 Hah. 00:57:50.162 --> 00:57:54.300 And, and why would that be? 00:57:57.303 --> 00:57:58.270 I don't know. 00:58:01.307 --> 00:58:03.909 'Cause he just wants to keep things really simple. 00:58:03.943 --> 00:58:04.777 Yeah, sure. 00:58:07.213 --> 00:58:09.215 I know this is hard for you. 00:58:10.316 --> 00:58:13.185 Hah. 00:58:13.219 --> 00:58:14.053 Yeah. 00:58:15.254 --> 00:58:17.323 This is something that you would do for Dad. 00:58:17.356 --> 00:58:18.157 Yeah. 00:58:22.061 --> 00:58:23.262 Are you good? 00:58:23.295 --> 00:58:25.698 Oh, good, I'm feeling good. 00:58:25.731 --> 00:58:26.832 Fine, fine. 00:58:29.301 --> 00:58:30.302 And you're 00:58:32.805 --> 00:58:35.107 gonna let him see- 00:58:35.141 --> 00:58:36.175 - Oh yeah. 00:58:36.208 --> 00:58:39.979 I wouldn't stand in his way. 00:58:42.081 --> 00:58:42.915 Sure. 00:59:02.401 --> 00:59:03.702 Hey Abby, Hannah White. 00:59:03.736 --> 00:59:06.038 Listen, I got your message. 00:59:06.071 --> 00:59:08.741 You don't really sound like you're stable right now. 00:59:08.774 --> 00:59:10.709 Hey Abby, it's Jay. 00:59:10.743 --> 00:59:14.180 So, I know you're in a really rough place. 00:59:14.213 --> 00:59:15.381 Time off. 00:59:15.414 --> 00:59:17.216 I think you should take that sabbatical we talked about. 00:59:17.249 --> 00:59:20.319 After the whole party cake thing, 00:59:20.352 --> 00:59:21.787 you just gotta- 00:59:21.820 --> 00:59:22.922 - Let me know when you're ready to talk 00:59:22.955 --> 00:59:24.456 from a more centered perspective. 00:59:24.490 --> 00:59:25.891 Hit pause for a minute. 00:59:25.925 --> 00:59:27.092 The garden's at a good stopping place, 00:59:27.126 --> 00:59:29.728 so let's touch base in a bit, okay? 00:59:29.762 --> 00:59:31.263 - Take care of yourself. - Take care. 00:59:31.297 --> 00:59:33.232 Abbs, I gotta go. 00:59:33.265 --> 00:59:34.133 Get out of there! 00:59:34.166 --> 00:59:37.970 You have to get yourself out of there! 00:59:38.003 --> 00:59:38.904 - Nathan. - Do what you need to, 00:59:38.938 --> 00:59:40.139 do what you need to. 00:59:40.172 --> 00:59:42.775 - I have to go. - Nathan. 00:59:42.808 --> 00:59:43.442 You ready? 00:59:45.211 --> 00:59:46.045 Mm-hm. 01:00:00.492 --> 01:00:02.461 All right, Mr. F? 01:00:02.494 --> 01:00:03.362 It's the moment you've been waiting for. 01:00:03.395 --> 01:00:04.897 Thanks for the shower. 01:00:04.930 --> 01:00:06.098 I got you. 01:00:06.131 --> 01:00:07.499 Your little man's all grown up and he comin' to see you. 01:00:07.533 --> 01:00:08.367 Nathan. 01:00:08.400 --> 01:00:10.336 Yeah, we got you looking pretty fly 01:00:10.369 --> 01:00:12.071 if I do say so myself. 01:00:12.104 --> 01:00:13.339 Give me some. 01:00:13.372 --> 01:00:14.340 There you go. 01:00:14.373 --> 01:00:15.441 That was good enough. 01:00:17.076 --> 01:00:18.377 Don't you look handsome? 01:00:18.410 --> 01:00:19.278 You're welcome. 01:00:20.412 --> 01:00:21.914 - Hi. - Hey, Dad. 01:00:23.983 --> 01:00:24.917 How are you feeling? 01:00:24.950 --> 01:00:26.285 Nervous. 01:00:26.318 --> 01:00:27.319 Good though. 01:00:28.354 --> 01:00:30.489 - Nerve is good. - You ready? 01:00:36.495 --> 01:00:37.329 Oh. 01:00:38.364 --> 01:00:39.465 Hello, Nathan. 01:00:41.000 --> 01:00:41.800 Hello. 01:01:01.954 --> 01:01:04.089 I never thought I'd live to see 01:01:05.090 --> 01:01:06.959 the two of you together again. 01:01:09.495 --> 01:01:11.597 I'll leave you two to catch up. 01:01:11.631 --> 01:01:12.431 No. 01:01:12.464 --> 01:01:14.300 - Stay. - Stay. 01:01:14.333 --> 01:01:15.801 - Stay. - Okay. 01:01:16.602 --> 01:01:18.003 So Nate, 01:01:19.972 --> 01:01:20.806 how is, 01:01:23.409 --> 01:01:24.943 how are you? 01:01:24.977 --> 01:01:25.978 And how is, 01:01:26.979 --> 01:01:29.882 it's, I know, don't tell me. 01:01:31.517 --> 01:01:32.584 - Karen. - Karen. 01:01:32.618 --> 01:01:33.452 How's Karen? 01:01:34.420 --> 01:01:36.055 Good. 01:01:36.088 --> 01:01:37.556 Everything is really good. 01:01:38.257 --> 01:01:39.391 Good. 01:01:39.425 --> 01:01:42.394 I came down to give a lecture on the Meiji Restoration 01:01:42.428 --> 01:01:44.496 at the College of Art and Design. 01:01:44.530 --> 01:01:46.031 - Oh. - He was wonderful. 01:01:48.967 --> 01:01:52.071 We actually just got back from a road trip 01:01:52.104 --> 01:01:54.406 to all the national parks of Utah. 01:01:55.274 --> 01:01:56.875 Utah? 01:01:56.909 --> 01:01:58.110 Yeah. 01:01:58.143 --> 01:02:00.579 Bryce, Zion, Arches. 01:02:02.014 --> 01:02:07.953 I had great memories from those trips you took us on, 01:02:10.489 --> 01:02:11.323 like Yosemite. 01:02:13.025 --> 01:02:15.394 You got me the T-shirt with the space, 01:02:15.427 --> 01:02:18.897 it looked like yo-semite. 01:02:26.105 --> 01:02:27.406 - Dad? - Yeah? 01:02:29.608 --> 01:02:31.910 Everything good about me is because of you. 01:02:34.113 --> 01:02:35.481 You encouraged me to love art 01:02:35.514 --> 01:02:38.016 and to make a living surrounded by art. 01:02:38.050 --> 01:02:38.884 Thank you. 01:02:41.220 --> 01:02:42.054 Nate. 01:02:48.026 --> 01:02:51.897 You got to live a life I never could. 01:02:56.034 --> 01:02:57.436 I, 01:02:57.469 --> 01:03:01.073 I tried to give you the best life I could. 01:03:04.644 --> 01:03:05.477 I tried. 01:03:06.478 --> 01:03:07.513 You tried. 01:03:07.546 --> 01:03:08.380 Yes. 01:03:20.125 --> 01:03:22.094 - Dad. - What? 01:03:22.494 --> 01:03:24.530 What else do you want to say to Nathan? 01:03:26.565 --> 01:03:28.934 When do I get to see him again? 01:03:33.105 --> 01:03:35.574 I don't know, Dad. 01:03:35.607 --> 01:03:36.643 What? 01:03:39.679 --> 01:03:42.581 I'd love a photo of the three of us. 01:03:42.614 --> 01:03:44.516 Darrin, can you help us for a second? 01:03:46.618 --> 01:03:47.687 Wouldn't that be great? 01:04:21.587 --> 01:04:23.690 How long do you think he's going to sleep for? 01:04:25.123 --> 01:04:26.458 That was a lot for him. 01:04:26.492 --> 01:04:27.593 I know. 01:04:27.626 --> 01:04:29.161 He'll be out for a while. 01:04:34.099 --> 01:04:35.501 He's sleeping more and more. 01:04:38.705 --> 01:04:40.372 Hey. 01:04:40.405 --> 01:04:42.241 You know, I'm gonna go ahead and sit with Mr. F. 01:04:46.679 --> 01:04:47.513 Hey. 01:04:51.083 --> 01:04:51.684 How'd it go? 01:04:51.718 --> 01:04:52.752 It went well. 01:04:54.453 --> 01:04:55.487 Took a picture. 01:04:55.521 --> 01:04:56.455 Do you want to see? 01:04:58.123 --> 01:04:58.758 Sure. 01:05:04.697 --> 01:05:05.732 There you go. 01:05:06.799 --> 01:05:09.134 Wow, ooh. 01:05:09.167 --> 01:05:09.903 Whew. 01:05:11.570 --> 01:05:14.674 That is totally weird. 01:05:14.707 --> 01:05:16.174 What's weird? 01:05:16.208 --> 01:05:19.144 Your brother, he's all bloated. 01:05:19.177 --> 01:05:20.813 Why did he get so bloated? 01:05:20.847 --> 01:05:22.247 What? 01:05:22.281 --> 01:05:24.684 Oh God, and his eyes are puffy. 01:05:27.286 --> 01:05:29.689 That's not what I see in it, Ma. 01:05:29.722 --> 01:05:32.558 Well, no, but I see him here, 01:05:33.893 --> 01:05:36.763 he looks like somebody who's on that medication 01:05:36.796 --> 01:05:41.133 for the inflamed kishkas, what is that thing called? 01:05:41.166 --> 01:05:42.669 - The kishkas. - Colitis. 01:05:42.702 --> 01:05:44.136 Yeah, colitis is what, 01:05:44.169 --> 01:05:47.640 exactly, he looks like someone with colitis. 01:05:47.674 --> 01:05:49.274 He probably has colitis. 01:05:49.308 --> 01:05:51.610 Okay, well that is our photo and, 01:05:53.713 --> 01:05:55.414 yeah it went well. 01:05:55.447 --> 01:05:56.783 Good. 01:05:56.816 --> 01:05:57.717 Glad to hear it. 01:05:57.750 --> 01:05:59.652 What have you been up to? 01:05:59.686 --> 01:06:01.119 Oh, well, 01:06:01.921 --> 01:06:05.490 I have been on a toilet seat at a coffee shop. 01:06:05.524 --> 01:06:06.859 Fun. 01:06:07.794 --> 01:06:08.828 Okay. 01:06:09.696 --> 01:06:10.730 Okay. 01:06:11.898 --> 01:06:14.634 Did he mention me? 01:06:17.469 --> 01:06:18.805 It didn't really come up. 01:06:20.873 --> 01:06:21.506 Ah. 01:06:23.175 --> 01:06:24.677 Let me see that picture again. 01:06:25.544 --> 01:06:26.612 Let me see it. 01:06:28.447 --> 01:06:29.281 Okay. 01:06:37.389 --> 01:06:38.658 Hmm. 01:06:38.691 --> 01:06:39.892 Well, you look beautiful, 01:06:39.926 --> 01:06:45.230 but he does not look like your brother. 01:06:45.263 --> 01:06:46.264 I mean, really. 01:06:47.199 --> 01:06:50.602 It's like a interloper. 01:06:51.436 --> 01:06:52.571 Okay. 01:06:52.604 --> 01:06:53.438 Okay. 01:07:02.547 --> 01:07:03.883 Abbs? 01:07:03.916 --> 01:07:05.183 Yeah, Dad? 01:07:11.824 --> 01:07:16.829 Sometimes when I close my eyes, I see things. 01:07:19.799 --> 01:07:20.867 What do you see? 01:07:20.900 --> 01:07:22.434 I see your boys. 01:07:25.270 --> 01:07:25.905 I see 01:07:28.340 --> 01:07:31.443 Davis running the bases in softball. 01:07:32.645 --> 01:07:35.414 I never got to see him play one game. 01:07:35.447 --> 01:07:36.615 That's okay. 01:07:37.616 --> 01:07:39.986 I see him running the bases 01:07:40.019 --> 01:07:44.724 and Finn is running right behind him. 01:07:48.427 --> 01:07:49.662 Sometimes I see 01:07:55.034 --> 01:07:55.902 your mother. 01:07:57.036 --> 01:07:58.838 Yeah? 01:07:58.871 --> 01:08:04.409 She looks the way she did when we first met. 01:08:05.945 --> 01:08:06.979 How's that? 01:08:07.013 --> 01:08:08.648 When she was 16. 01:08:10.515 --> 01:08:12.617 She looks beautiful, she's so beautiful. 01:08:17.824 --> 01:08:19.357 I worry about her. 01:08:21.994 --> 01:08:22.962 Why is that? 01:08:25.732 --> 01:08:27.800 That she won't be okay, that 01:08:32.839 --> 01:08:33.940 she'll miss me. 01:08:42.481 --> 01:08:45.952 I never meant that I could do anything without her. 01:08:50.089 --> 01:08:52.925 And now I'm gonna die without her. 01:08:56.528 --> 01:08:58.664 All I want is to be with her 01:09:01.801 --> 01:09:02.635 forever. 01:09:05.504 --> 01:09:06.939 Do you ever tell her that? 01:09:08.641 --> 01:09:10.676 Oh, I couldn't tell her that. 01:09:14.981 --> 01:09:16.281 You just did. 01:09:21.854 --> 01:09:23.022 Is that you? 01:09:27.459 --> 01:09:28.795 You're my world. 01:09:32.932 --> 01:09:33.766 You know? 01:09:35.968 --> 01:09:37.003 Do you know? 01:09:57.156 --> 01:09:57.990 Hey. 01:09:59.959 --> 01:10:01.459 How's he doing today? 01:10:04.429 --> 01:10:05.064 Has he eaten? 01:10:09.534 --> 01:10:11.804 Ice chips. 01:10:16.175 --> 01:10:17.877 He's startin' his transition 01:10:19.779 --> 01:10:21.848 to a place where you won't need any food, 01:10:23.916 --> 01:10:25.383 he won't feel any pain. 01:10:27.653 --> 01:10:29.021 It's a place of the spirit. 01:10:31.190 --> 01:10:32.390 Come here. 01:10:36.829 --> 01:10:38.496 You've been so good to him. 01:10:38.530 --> 01:10:39.832 No, it's okay. 01:10:39.866 --> 01:10:40.666 Thank you. 01:10:43.535 --> 01:10:45.004 You're such a good daughter. 01:10:47.505 --> 01:10:48.975 He's so loved. 01:10:50.676 --> 01:10:51.476 It's okay. 01:11:28.114 --> 01:11:30.182 To begin with, no. 01:11:30.216 --> 01:11:32.018 Let me call attention to the fact 01:11:32.051 --> 01:11:36.055 that the ones hunting us are young male adults. 01:11:40.693 --> 01:11:42.728 - I'm thirsty. - Thirsty? 01:11:46.132 --> 01:11:46.899 Of his culture. 01:11:46.933 --> 01:11:48.200 You caught me. 01:11:50.136 --> 01:11:50.836 Do you get it? 01:11:50.870 --> 01:11:52.104 No. 01:12:21.734 --> 01:12:22.534 How's that? 01:12:22.567 --> 01:12:23.235 Little more. 01:12:23.269 --> 01:12:24.837 - Okay. - Little more. 01:12:24.870 --> 01:12:26.072 Okay. 01:12:26.105 --> 01:12:27.039 Okay. 01:12:29.208 --> 01:12:30.876 Abbs. 01:12:30.910 --> 01:12:32.178 Abbs. 01:12:38.985 --> 01:12:41.988 Athan. 01:12:44.056 --> 01:12:44.890 Nathan? 01:12:49.996 --> 01:12:50.830 No. 01:12:54.200 --> 01:12:55.735 - No? - No. 01:13:04.910 --> 01:13:06.045 Hi, this is Nathan, 01:13:06.078 --> 01:13:08.180 leave a message after the beep. 01:13:08.214 --> 01:13:09.115 Wait for the beep. 01:13:10.049 --> 01:13:11.150 Wait for the beep. 01:13:12.752 --> 01:13:15.187 Hold on, here it comes. 01:13:16.588 --> 01:13:17.790 Beep, that wasn't it. 01:13:40.713 --> 01:13:42.580 I can go get it. 01:13:42.614 --> 01:13:44.083 I'll get it. 01:13:44.116 --> 01:13:47.119 No, honey, you shouldn't be getting his morphine. 01:13:47.153 --> 01:13:48.988 - I'll be right back, Ma. - That's his job. 01:13:50.322 --> 01:13:52.091 Ma, I'd like Darrin to be here 01:13:52.124 --> 01:13:54.760 in case anything happens, okay? 01:13:54.794 --> 01:13:55.795 Okay. 01:13:55.828 --> 01:13:56.929 Can I have a minute? 01:14:16.649 --> 01:14:17.283 Hey, Dad. 01:14:20.686 --> 01:14:21.854 I'm gonna go. 01:14:24.290 --> 01:14:26.158 I'm gonna be right back. 01:14:28.661 --> 01:14:30.229 I know how much pain you're in. 01:14:33.666 --> 01:14:36.268 If you wanna go while I'm gone, 01:14:39.338 --> 01:14:40.339 that's okay. 01:14:51.717 --> 01:14:52.718 That's okay. 01:14:55.287 --> 01:14:56.956 I promise it's okay. 01:15:06.999 --> 01:15:08.667 I love you the most. 01:15:17.476 --> 01:15:19.211 I know you know that. 01:15:34.860 --> 01:15:36.295 Hey. 01:15:36.328 --> 01:15:38.097 It's good you called. 01:15:39.131 --> 01:15:40.432 I'm happy to help. 01:15:46.805 --> 01:15:47.973 Hey, what's going on? 01:15:48.007 --> 01:15:49.108 Abigail, he isn't breathing. 01:15:49.141 --> 01:15:50.776 Abigail, he was breathing a minute ago. 01:15:50.809 --> 01:15:52.111 Should we call 911? 01:15:52.144 --> 01:15:53.245 No. 01:15:53.279 --> 01:15:54.380 No, that's not how this works. 01:15:54.413 --> 01:15:56.148 We don't call 911. 01:15:56.182 --> 01:15:57.716 That's not how this works. 01:15:58.817 --> 01:16:00.786 We do nothing. 01:16:03.789 --> 01:16:04.990 Ma, can you hear me? 01:16:06.025 --> 01:16:07.326 Okay. 01:16:07.359 --> 01:16:09.261 Have you recited the Shema? 01:16:09.295 --> 01:16:10.362 No. 01:16:11.363 --> 01:16:12.865 Repeat three times, 01:16:14.099 --> 01:16:17.269 Sh'ma Yisrael Adonai Eloheinu Adonai Echad. 01:16:17.303 --> 01:16:22.107 Sh'ma Yisrael Adonai Eloheinu Adonai Echad. 01:16:22.141 --> 01:16:26.412 Sh'ma Yisrael Adonai Eloheinu Adonai Echad. 01:16:26.445 --> 01:16:30.115 Sh'ma Yisrael Adonai Eloheinu Adonai Echad. 01:16:30.149 --> 01:16:33.152 Baruch shem kevod malchuto le'olam va'ed. 01:16:33.185 --> 01:16:37.856 Baruch shem kevod malchuto le'olam va'ed. 01:16:37.890 --> 01:16:40.759 Baruch dayan ha-emet. 01:16:40.793 --> 01:16:43.996 Baruch dayan ha-emet. 01:16:44.029 --> 01:16:46.398 All right, I'll see you soon. 01:16:49.001 --> 01:16:50.536 Turn around. 01:17:27.940 --> 01:17:30.109 What do you mean they have to take him away? 01:17:30.142 --> 01:17:31.377 Can't he sleep here? 01:17:32.578 --> 01:17:34.513 Ma, they have to take him. 01:18:03.075 --> 01:18:05.411 Our wedding color was green. 01:19:13.512 --> 01:19:15.547 Abby, what was that? 01:19:15.581 --> 01:19:17.049 The power, Ma. 01:19:18.317 --> 01:19:19.218 For the hairdryer. 01:19:20.452 --> 01:19:21.487 I don't think so. 01:19:21.520 --> 01:19:23.288 It's never happened before. 01:19:24.189 --> 01:19:25.290 I think it was him. 01:19:27.259 --> 01:19:28.594 Ma, it's not him. 01:19:28.627 --> 01:19:31.463 That's not how this works, okay? 01:19:31.497 --> 01:19:33.465 What else could it have been? 01:19:35.100 --> 01:19:36.468 Is Nathan coming today? 01:19:36.502 --> 01:19:37.536 Ma, 01:19:39.571 --> 01:19:42.408 I'm gonna the fix fucking power for your fucking hairdryer, 01:19:42.441 --> 01:19:43.375 okay? 01:19:43.409 --> 01:19:45.010 No Nathan. 01:19:45.043 --> 01:19:46.512 Abigail, I was just asking. 01:19:46.545 --> 01:19:48.013 And watch your mouth. 01:19:48.748 --> 01:19:50.482 I'm sorry. I just, 01:19:52.418 --> 01:19:53.552 I haven't heard from him 01:19:53.585 --> 01:19:56.221 and I'm dealing with a lot of things and I just don't, 01:19:57.523 --> 01:19:58.357 sorry. 01:20:01.994 --> 01:20:03.462 It's okay, Eugene. 01:20:03.495 --> 01:20:05.364 Oh my God. 01:20:12.538 --> 01:20:14.606 Is that what you're going to wear? 01:20:17.075 --> 01:20:17.710 What? 01:20:19.077 --> 01:20:20.412 Do you want to borrow something? 01:20:20.446 --> 01:20:23.615 Or are you good like this? 01:20:24.616 --> 01:20:26.051 Yes. 01:20:26.084 --> 01:20:28.020 Do you want me to help you blow dry your hair? 01:20:28.053 --> 01:20:29.521 - No. - Okay, just asking. 01:20:30.657 --> 01:20:31.691 Thank you. 01:20:41.801 --> 01:20:44.203 You want me to look nice. 01:21:04.623 --> 01:21:06.158 It's time for Keriah. 01:21:07.292 --> 01:21:09.495 We are going to tear a cloth ribbon. 01:21:09.528 --> 01:21:11.698 Did you want to tear your ribbon instead? 01:21:12.632 --> 01:21:13.565 No. 01:21:13.599 --> 01:21:14.600 Okay. 01:21:14.634 --> 01:21:15.702 Okay. 01:21:15.735 --> 01:21:18.036 I would like to tear a ribbon. 01:21:18.070 --> 01:21:18.705 Of course. 01:21:20.707 --> 01:21:22.508 It goes over here. 01:21:22.541 --> 01:21:23.676 Not over the heart? 01:21:24.644 --> 01:21:26.478 Only for the child. 01:21:26.512 --> 01:21:28.748 Spouses tear over the right side. 01:21:28.781 --> 01:21:31.483 Well, I'm in as much grief as she is. 01:23:20.592 --> 01:23:24.162 Eugene said when he saw this dress, "That is so depressing. 01:23:24.196 --> 01:23:27.466 It looks like something you're gonna wear to my service." 01:23:27.499 --> 01:23:28.701 And here I am. 01:23:28.735 --> 01:23:31.671 Hyman, thank you for coming. 01:23:33.706 --> 01:23:36.743 - Oh dear. - Does Nathan know? 01:23:36.776 --> 01:23:37.644 Oh, I think so. 01:23:37.677 --> 01:23:39.244 But he did not come. 01:23:39.946 --> 01:23:41.546 That's horrible. 01:23:53.492 --> 01:23:54.393 You're really committing 01:23:54.426 --> 01:23:55.527 to those chin pubes, huh? 01:23:55.560 --> 01:23:57.362 I am all testosterone. 01:23:57.396 --> 01:23:58.263 Disgusting. 01:23:59.666 --> 01:24:00.867 Talking 'bout you? 01:24:00.900 --> 01:24:01.834 I agree. 01:24:01.868 --> 01:24:03.602 - Hi, guys. - Hi, Mom. 01:24:04.904 --> 01:24:05.738 Oh. 01:24:06.706 --> 01:24:09.541 You look so pretty. 01:24:09.574 --> 01:24:10.710 - Thank you. - You think so? 01:24:10.743 --> 01:24:12.745 Nate. 01:24:12.779 --> 01:24:14.613 You want more eye shadow? 01:24:14.647 --> 01:24:15.882 You think I need it? 01:24:15.915 --> 01:24:16.749 No. 01:24:16.783 --> 01:24:17.582 I think you look perfect. 01:24:17.616 --> 01:24:19.351 - Thanks, Ma. - Oh, there you are. 01:24:19.384 --> 01:24:20.585 Barb, I was looking for you. 01:24:20.619 --> 01:24:21.821 Hi, guys. 01:24:21.854 --> 01:24:23.588 - Good morning. - What's going on? 01:24:23.622 --> 01:24:24.523 This isn't a party. 01:24:24.556 --> 01:24:27.526 - Ah! - Oh, Eug! 01:24:27.559 --> 01:24:28.995 Don't say anything, I'll take the blame. 01:24:29.028 --> 01:24:29.829 Oh, come on. 01:24:29.862 --> 01:24:31.764 That was so violent. 01:24:31.798 --> 01:24:32.899 Get out of here. 01:24:32.932 --> 01:24:34.299 - Dad! - On the double. 01:24:38.303 --> 01:24:41.974 And how about Suzy Lifla? 01:24:42.008 --> 01:24:45.577 Could you believe the weight she put on? 01:24:45.610 --> 01:24:47.612 She's become a beluga, 01:24:47.647 --> 01:24:50.817 and she doesn't even dress to help herself. 01:24:51.818 --> 01:24:53.920 And Albert Gold 01:24:54.821 --> 01:24:57.690 with the goiter on his neck. 01:24:57.724 --> 01:24:58.825 - Oh. - Ma. 01:24:58.858 --> 01:24:59.959 - What? - Could you stop? 01:25:01.894 --> 01:25:02.795 We just buried Dad. 01:25:02.829 --> 01:25:04.931 And you're gossiping about all the people 01:25:04.964 --> 01:25:07.265 who came here to support you. 01:25:07.299 --> 01:25:11.336 How dare you speak to a mourner like that, Abigail. 01:25:11.369 --> 01:25:12.705 I'm mourning too. 01:25:13.906 --> 01:25:16.743 Yes, but you are not his wife. 01:25:16.776 --> 01:25:17.810 There's a difference. 01:25:17.844 --> 01:25:19.779 You hardly acted like one. 01:25:20.947 --> 01:25:21.781 What? 01:25:23.082 --> 01:25:24.784 I hardly acted like a wife? 01:25:24.817 --> 01:25:26.919 You don't know the half of what went on. 01:25:28.453 --> 01:25:31.490 Stay out of other people's business, Abigail. 01:25:31.523 --> 01:25:34.359 You are constantly dragging me into your business. 01:25:34.392 --> 01:25:36.796 And I am happy to fix everything that you break. 01:25:36.829 --> 01:25:39.297 I have no time for myself ever 01:25:39.331 --> 01:25:40.967 to do anything. 01:25:41.000 --> 01:25:43.803 Oh, but you had time to ruin your marriage. 01:25:46.773 --> 01:25:48.607 Look at you, Abigail. 01:25:48.641 --> 01:25:50.308 You are a wreck. 01:25:52.011 --> 01:25:52.645 Yeah, Ma. 01:25:54.747 --> 01:25:57.049 How else do you expect me to be? 01:25:57.083 --> 01:25:57.917 Hmm? 01:25:59.351 --> 01:26:00.887 How do you expect me to take care of myself 01:26:00.920 --> 01:26:04.056 when you never give me any room to do it? 01:26:04.090 --> 01:26:04.957 Oh, room? 01:26:04.991 --> 01:26:06.926 You want room? 01:26:06.959 --> 01:26:10.595 Oh, well go learn from your brother. 01:27:13.993 --> 01:27:18.931 Nathan. 01:27:19.497 --> 01:27:20.900 What? 01:27:20.933 --> 01:27:22.101 She's mad at me. 01:27:22.134 --> 01:27:23.602 Abby, go away. 01:27:24.971 --> 01:27:25.805 Nathan. 01:27:26.939 --> 01:27:27.807 Please. 01:27:27.840 --> 01:27:30.542 I made her mad and she won't feed me. 01:27:31.576 --> 01:27:32.211 Please. 01:27:34.113 --> 01:27:37.049 I'm hungry and my hair's a mess. 01:27:37.083 --> 01:27:38.416 I need your help. 01:27:38.450 --> 01:27:39.752 Why can't Dad help you? 01:27:41.888 --> 01:27:43.421 I don't know where he is. 01:27:46.092 --> 01:27:47.026 Come here. 01:28:05.244 --> 01:28:07.713 Nathan. 01:28:15.154 --> 01:28:15.955 Abby. 01:28:17.622 --> 01:28:19.524 What are you doing here? 01:28:21.127 --> 01:28:23.062 I had to bury our father today. 01:28:24.163 --> 01:28:24.997 I know. 01:28:26.799 --> 01:28:28.034 I shouldn't have had to do that alone. 01:28:28.067 --> 01:28:29.735 Abby, I couldn't do it. 01:28:29.769 --> 01:28:31.170 I shouldn't have had to deal with all of the things 01:28:31.203 --> 01:28:32.570 that I've had to deal with alone. 01:28:32.604 --> 01:28:34.740 Yeah, but the question is not why. 01:28:34.774 --> 01:28:36.142 I didn't stick around to deal with that shit. 01:28:36.175 --> 01:28:38.744 - Why did you? - Because I had to. 01:28:38.778 --> 01:28:40.179 Somebody had to, Nathan. 01:28:40.212 --> 01:28:42.148 You know that somebody had to stay. 01:28:42.181 --> 01:28:43.581 - Shhh. - And I, 01:28:45.184 --> 01:28:47.987 I have slept with all the responsibility. 01:28:48.020 --> 01:28:49.255 I had to make all the big decisions, 01:28:49.288 --> 01:28:52.624 I had to fix, solve, mend every fucking thing that they did. 01:28:52.658 --> 01:28:53.993 - I needed you. - Going to some 01:28:54.026 --> 01:28:56.729 ancient ritual with a bunch of bullshit in Aramaic 01:28:56.762 --> 01:28:58.030 - does not matter. - That's not it. 01:28:58.064 --> 01:28:59.632 - That's not it. - Dad wasn't even religious. 01:28:59.665 --> 01:29:00.967 You lost the plot. 01:29:02.835 --> 01:29:03.936 You're a martyr. 01:29:05.237 --> 01:29:06.973 You're a fucking punching bag. 01:29:07.006 --> 01:29:07.907 That's what you fucking are. 01:29:07.940 --> 01:29:08.975 You're a fucking doormat. 01:29:10.176 --> 01:29:11.243 And you want me to be that too, huh? 01:29:11.277 --> 01:29:12.812 I freed myself. 01:29:13.746 --> 01:29:15.147 Oh. 01:29:15.181 --> 01:29:18.483 Oh, you know what? 01:29:20.052 --> 01:29:21.586 I know what you carry. 01:29:22.888 --> 01:29:23.856 What I carry? 01:29:24.957 --> 01:29:26.225 You're as sick as I am. 01:29:27.693 --> 01:29:29.829 You're as sick as they made us. 01:29:31.130 --> 01:29:32.597 I see it all over you. 01:29:34.166 --> 01:29:35.234 I just- 01:29:35.267 --> 01:29:36.102 - Hey. 01:30:04.196 --> 01:30:05.631 I need those days, Abigail. 01:30:05.664 --> 01:30:07.967 Yeah, but that was gonna be my weekend. 01:30:08.000 --> 01:30:10.102 I know, but we pride ourselves on being flexible 01:30:10.136 --> 01:30:12.138 with our schedule, and I'm asking this year. 01:30:13.339 --> 01:30:14.874 I'll think about it. 01:30:14.907 --> 01:30:15.775 What's to think about? 01:30:15.808 --> 01:30:16.709 It's no big deal. 01:30:16.742 --> 01:30:17.309 I'm asking for your help here. 01:30:17.343 --> 01:30:18.944 Peter, I have plans. 01:30:19.879 --> 01:30:22.214 I'm not gonna change my plans. 01:30:22.248 --> 01:30:22.982 Hey guys, come on. 01:30:23.015 --> 01:30:24.917 - Mom. - Show her the flowers. 01:30:24.950 --> 01:30:26.152 We got flowers. 01:30:27.820 --> 01:30:30.089 Oh, you did such a good job. 01:30:30.122 --> 01:30:31.757 Thank you. 01:30:31.791 --> 01:30:32.758 My little garden gnomes. 01:30:32.792 --> 01:30:34.060 - Hi, Dad. - Hi, Dad. 01:30:34.093 --> 01:30:35.593 Hey guys, let's wash your hands, 01:30:35.627 --> 01:30:37.163 because I see the food's ready. 01:30:37.196 --> 01:30:43.335 And if you guys would like any help in washing up, 01:30:44.136 --> 01:30:45.871 I'm here. 01:30:45.905 --> 01:30:46.972 - Ma. - Yeah. 01:30:47.006 --> 01:30:48.674 I can't with you. 01:30:52.044 --> 01:30:52.978 - Shut it. - Listen. 01:30:53.012 --> 01:30:54.847 I know. 01:30:54.880 --> 01:30:55.781 I can't with her. 01:30:55.815 --> 01:30:57.249 She's just... 01:30:59.185 --> 01:31:00.886 - Oh wow. - What? 01:31:00.920 --> 01:31:02.721 Is your mom texting you from the bathroom? 01:31:06.192 --> 01:31:07.359 It's Nathan. 01:31:10.329 --> 01:31:12.164 He sent me an invitation. 01:31:16.235 --> 01:31:19.205 Some very creative combing. 01:31:20.072 --> 01:31:20.906 Whoa. 01:31:21.774 --> 01:31:23.142 Finn, ew! 01:31:23.175 --> 01:31:24.944 You are disgusting. 01:31:24.977 --> 01:31:25.778 God. 01:31:25.811 --> 01:31:27.012 Oh my God. 01:31:28.314 --> 01:31:31.817 Did I ever tell you what Zaide likes to say? 01:31:31.851 --> 01:31:33.752 Don't say anything, I'll take the blame. 01:31:33.786 --> 01:31:35.020 He used to think 01:31:35.054 --> 01:31:37.423 it was the most hilarious thing. 01:31:37.456 --> 01:31:39.024 He never told you that? 01:31:39.058 --> 01:31:40.192 - No. - I don't think so. 01:31:40.226 --> 01:31:41.727 You're missing out. 01:31:41.760 --> 01:31:42.728 It was a good one. 01:31:43.729 --> 01:31:45.798 Come on, let's go. 01:31:47.199 --> 01:31:48.267 Don't want to be late. 01:31:59.778 --> 01:32:01.113 Who are those people? 01:32:01.147 --> 01:32:02.047 That's my brother, Nathan. 01:32:02.081 --> 01:32:04.383 Remember I showed you his photo? 01:32:04.416 --> 01:32:06.252 His wife, Karen, son Dylan, 01:32:06.285 --> 01:32:09.088 and his daughter, Amelia, whose party it is, 01:32:09.121 --> 01:32:11.290 and they are coming over. 01:32:14.326 --> 01:32:15.327 - Hi. - Hi. 01:32:18.397 --> 01:32:19.298 This is Dylan. 01:32:20.366 --> 01:32:22.201 Dylan, this is my sister. 01:32:22.234 --> 01:32:24.170 Hi Dylan, it's nice to meet you. 01:32:25.237 --> 01:32:27.439 These are my sons, Finn and Davis. 01:32:28.807 --> 01:32:29.942 Say hi, boys. 01:32:29.975 --> 01:32:31.377 - Handshakes. - Hi. 01:32:31.410 --> 01:32:32.311 It's okay. 01:32:33.312 --> 01:32:35.047 Hi. 01:32:35.080 --> 01:32:36.215 I'm Nathan. 01:32:36.248 --> 01:32:37.283 - Hi. - Hello. 01:32:38.350 --> 01:32:40.019 - Hi, Abigail. - Hi, Karen. 01:32:40.052 --> 01:32:41.220 Karen, Amelia. 01:32:41.253 --> 01:32:42.988 Amelia, congratulations. 01:32:44.290 --> 01:32:45.291 Come on, boys. 01:32:45.324 --> 01:32:46.458 Let me show you around. 01:32:48.394 --> 01:32:49.728 - Come on in. - Go ahead. 01:32:49.762 --> 01:32:50.396 It's okay. 01:32:56.468 --> 01:32:57.469 Nice party. 01:32:57.503 --> 01:32:58.304 Yeah. 01:33:19.124 --> 01:33:20.492 What, is this awkward? 01:33:20.526 --> 01:33:22.428 Nathan. 01:33:22.461 --> 01:33:23.829 No, it's awkward. 01:33:25.397 --> 01:33:27.199 You'll get there. 01:34:01.400 --> 01:35:06.400 Telegram Channel and Instagram Page .:: @bollbolljan_com ::.